I want her to miss me

[Jordan1234]

Hi peeps i need help -.-



Well I want to make my girlfriend miss me... I am 13 and she is 12... We are too young i know but... At nights I can't fall asleep because of her..I miss her very fking much she spends more time with friends than with me..So i need some tips how to make her miss me as i do. I know she loves me.. But i want her to miss me.. Tell me some tips pls.. We are on winter vacation now till 23 january, and i only saw her 5 times from 1 january... I want her to miss me and want to see me more HELP ME PLS, thanks

[FullyAlive]

5 times in 10 days is actually a lot to see someone, my personal opinion is you should be quite happy with that. People have different attitudes to relationships, I wouldn't see the person I was with any more than twice a week max, I'd prefer it to stick at once a week and I have a lot of friends who would agree with me. However I also have friends who like to see their boyfriend/girlfriend upwards of three times a week and clearly you're with them on that being preferred. But what i'm trying to say is people want different things from relationships and really the only way you'll find out what she wants is to talk to her and tell her you want to see her more than you do now. But be prepared for her to tell you that you're asking for more than she's willing to give. And no offence but you are only twelve and thirteen maybe wait until you've matured a bit before jumping into dating like that.

However if you'd rather not talk to her about it and you're intent on making her miss you as you put it, then really its simple . Step away, stop texting her or calling or however you communicate and wait for her to come to you its pretty hard to miss someone who's always there.

[Spook]

I think somebody's a little attatched. Just kidding. :) From what you've described, you see her quite a bit. If you really want her to think about spending more time with you, how about you plan to go out? After all, she is your girlfriend. Girls typically wait for the guy to ask them someplace, it's a traditional habit.

[kenoloor]

I think somebody's a little attatched. Just kidding. :)

I'm not kidding. If you can't even fall asleep at night without her, you have an attachment problem.

From what you've described, you see her quite a bit. If you really want her to think about spending more time with you, how about you plan to go out? After all, she is your girlfriend. Girls typically wait for the guy to ask them someplace, it's a traditional habit.

It's an old-fashioned idea involving chauvinism, but it's a habit nonetheless. Ask her out. Or talk to her about how you're feeling in this situation.
Communicate.

[Jordan1234]

I think somebody's a little attatched. Just kidding. :) From what you've described, you see her quite a bit. If you really want her to think about spending more time with you, how about you plan to go out? After all, she is your girlfriend. Girls typically wait for the guy to ask them someplace, it's a traditional habit.

Yeah I want to go out, but she is always busy, she is with her friends at skating park, or hanging out.. Etc... I am always here for her but..

[Rage of the Menace]

Don't worry, i like, never get to see my girlfriend. (long-distance)

[PandaLeah]

Yeah I want to go out, but she is always busy, she is with her friends at skating park, or hanging out.. Etc... I am always here for her but..

go hang out with her friends too!

[Donkey]

lol, she will miss you if you get her to like you more. that will come with time bud, nothing much to worry about