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RayRay729
January 10th, 2012, 05:36 PM
First off im bi and im confused about a boy that says hes straight. Iv known him for 4months but i barley started talkin to him for like 2. Anyways, imma just jump to the part im confused about. Alright, me and him went to the movie theater about a week ago to watch a movie and im just siting there and where kind of siting close to eachother and suddenly he places his head on my shoulder agianst my neck for like about 15seconds. I dont do anything i just sit there, because i kinda like him. And then l8tr on he puts his head agiants mine and stares into my eyes. i didnt look aways or anything. But what do u think that means??? Oh and about like 3weeks before, we were texting each other and he says to me "do you ever have gay thoughts?" and i say "yea sometimes why do you?" and then he says sometimes. I say "well what do you think about?" he says i think about "banging dudes when i J.O, but im not gay" and then i say "same here". And About 2dayz after that he brings it up and says "how come youv told me you where bi but not your brother?" and i say "because my brother will judge me" and then I say "well how come you havent told your brother?" he said "told him what?" i said "what we talked about the other night" he said "i didnt tell you i was bi" and i said i know "but u told me that you have gay fantasys "then he said "no i didnt" and then i was like "yes you did u said you think about guys banging when u J.O" and he denied agian then i forward the mssgs he sent me the other night, and then he said "oh yeah i remember now"..... i think he tryed to cover up or something??? but anyways, what do u think about the whole thing. Do u think hes gay or bi. Do you think maybe he likes me or what??? oh and im 16 and hes 14. Thank You For The Advice.

boosterboy
January 10th, 2012, 05:47 PM
Dunno really, it's always difficult to judge with people you dont know. Im sure he'll drop hints if he does like you

ThePaintMixer
January 10th, 2012, 06:05 PM
All I'm gonna say is for him to rest his head against your shoulder in the cinema and then stare into your eyes- that tells me he has feelings for you. THEN AGAIN, (depending on how old he/ you are) he may just be curious- which could explain why e keeps saying he is straight etc.

senior.2013
January 10th, 2012, 08:46 PM
As ThePaintMixer said, depending on age, you both may be curious. The way you describe it, he has feelings for each other. Just have another conversation with him about it.

ImCoolBeans
January 10th, 2012, 09:00 PM
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