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IFakedBeingAlive
January 9th, 2012, 09:54 PM
I knew him for about a month and a half. We went to a program with about, 4-6 other people. There was another attractive girl who went to the program for 1 day, and the guy hugged her (and he only knew her for 1 day) and we knew each other for a month and a half and the most he did was shake my hand. He was nice to me though, he carried a heavy briefcase for me, and when a guy told me to "shh" he said "don't tell girls to shoosh, apologize."

He was generally nice to me; whenever I said something "humorous" he would laugh, and he gave me 3 cigarettes for free...(So that's an idea of what our friendship was like).

It was the last day of the program. We were both outside, in a public place. He said, "That guy was starring at you" I said "Starring at ME?" And he said "Yeah he was starring at your t-ts. I didn't want to say anything to you because I didn't want to embarrass you...he said a smarta$$ comment..." (When he told me this he looked at my chest...) I forgot what I said after this but I was shocked...it never happened to me before.

Before he asked me these personal questions, he touched his head like he was nervous or something. He said, "I'm not trying to be rude...but has a guy ever tried to f*ck you?" I said no. He said, "have you ever been offered?" I said no. He said, "do you want to?" I said no.

Then after that he said, "oh if a guy ever tries to sexually harass you, just call me"(I have his number). Then he asked me if I had ever gotten teased, and I said of course. He said, "Yeah, I've been bagged out too...I think that guys who tease girls are cxunts"

I'm obese and considered an "emo" or a "grundgy kid". I'm not attractive in the slightest. (I'm female if you haven't already gathered).

ArkDude
January 9th, 2012, 10:39 PM
I think he was testing you since you said your obese I think he wants to know if people are treating u bad and just maybe he likes you

Manga
January 9th, 2012, 10:56 PM
Sounds like he wants sex :3.

He may just be a really good friend tbh, or he likes you a bit. A lot of guys say those types of things to friends though (except for the sex parts).

Core
January 9th, 2012, 11:04 PM
The sex prts alittle confuzing, but it sounds like he likes u and is nervous that if he makes his move hell "scare" u away or get rejected

Camazot
January 9th, 2012, 11:06 PM
well is he in the "popular crowd" well it doesnt really matter
i would have hugged him myself if i were u especially when he stood up for u...perfect time...and i think he does like u but he might not want to rush into saying it because he doesnt want to hurt u or...dont get mad...but wants to use u for sex...its a possibility im just putting it out there