So much money gone :(

[Dimentio]

Well last year i lost £222 and so did my mum, We got £122 of it back each now but not all of it, Then this is the one that happened today which made me walk out of school, In July last year on my 12 year old brothers birthday, My mum was dribing the car to get a few things, The baby threw up, He was choking on his sick so my mum undid her belt to ben over and check on him while she was STOPPING the car!
Next minute, Sirens, My mum was alone at the time so the Police officer is asking my mum to leave my baby bro who was not even one at the time while he was choking and covered in sick, Obviously my mum refused and in the end the Police officer on the street just said here is your fine but next time do as i say.
So my mum payed the £90 on the fine, And then today some man wakes me up after 2:30 hours sleep and wants mum, So i get her, And he is demanding £365, And after LOTS of name calling and disagreements we give him the money, But i do not trust this man as he came at 6 AM, His office could not answer till 7:30 AM, He was demanding A LOT of money and also apparently they send the one letter and that is it!
So after getting this one letter which he said we did which we didn't as i go through all the letters, And says that one letetr had a warning and stuff for all this, He threatens us with the Bay Lifts and stuff and like i said, We gave him the money and he sods off.
All day so far i have been crying and stressed and school was not helping so i walked out and it looks like my mum is letting me have the day off.
We have been having to use our Christmas Money and my stepdads work money which is not much for the 6 of us including the 7 pets we have, And this one hurt me the most, My baby bros money, I keep a speacial money jar for him which NO one touches and if i fount money lying about in the house or people would jsut put their own money in there, And now half of it is gone.
I just don't know what to do! My family are already in big debts and we're broke, And our family, Well it is everyone for themselves and no one gets along our house damage can prove that.
I just want to help but do not know how! I am flat broke now and i got no jobs i can do, I used to be SUCH a happy person but had my odd moments and now, Now school has started and i have been getting angry and sad and not sleeping or eating even MORE! I f*cking hate the goveremnt and anyone who has anything to do with money, They are all a bunch of pricks.

[DerBear]

Well. I will try and offer advice to the best of my ability

Well since you did not say how you lost the first chunk of money I cant offer any advice.

The part about your baby bro being sick and vomiting and chocking is more than a reason to not get out of the car and as for the law about unwilful pulling over well that does come into a good case to pull over as your little bros life was in danger. The reason why the police officer would be able to ask you to get out of the car is because in a sense he has the right to and if you break down then you are supposed to leave almost imdetley due to the danger of being at the roadside-depending on traffic, the un doing of the seatbelt while the vehical is moving is against the law but surely a warning would of been acceptable (although unless she blindly drives to the side to stop or does so she should of just stopped and took her belt off, also UK law is now a lot stricter on this kinda stuff) So I agree with you this is bull, any resonable person would of understood that this was a serious situation, but again the officer was in the right to act, although if you complained there is a good chance you could of atleast gotten an apoligy of some sorts. The man who demanded the money could not of known your sleep paterns that is just shit bad luck, also again if he showed identify whitch he must!!!! then that has to be proof enough also he does not under english law need a warent or anything to threaten you will bail lifters because under the english law they dont need too get any kind of special permit also 6am is reasonable as for a office/county sheriff this is his start time, although the office should be avaible then or atleast you should of been able to get some legal advice before blindly handing money over. You should check into this and encourge your mum to get involved in seeing is she can make a complaint and ask around to the local sation ect. Although there is suspision it does seem like everything was above board, maybe some fault of the officers for not being helpful but when money is involved......

Anyway I would try not to feel too down and remember hate takes energy so why hate on them, if it take energy why waste it on them, Just try to find something good about the world.

I am sorry I have not been much help but just trying to show you some sort of reason why this could all be just shit luck.

Remember chin up

Derri

[Dimentio]

Thanks, Yeah the Police officer was a bit to unfair and my mum has reported him but nothing has happened, We are ringing up all the people we can right now just to see if we can get this money back! Also the first one was my mum ordered something from Amazon but as it was in her name but they took my bank card details we both lsot the money and their new delivery company said they delivered it to us but we did not pick it up so we asked why they did not leave a note saying we was not here and they said because we did not know where you lived, So they lied to us basically! And we do not get the money back for it! I am so unlucky it is unfair! :'(
Edit:
Yeah this is the thing that confused us, Apparently my Bankcard details were the one at the top so Amazon used that, And we wanted a Kindle and to send one back and that is where we had the trouble now they took back the good Kindle and i am left with the broke one, We really cannot figure it out! But everyone has moaned about this new delivery company and issues like this so i think they are firing them! :D

[DerBear]

Amazon are genarally good but because they sometime make errors it can leave you lot out of pocket, Did you get the goods in the end?
Also Amazons terms and conditions state that the holder of the amazon account must use there own bank card.

Unless that is the case I am a little confused how can they charge you both?
You would get a refund on one account and the other would be given to amazon for the goods-a little confused

[Joshh97]

:hug3: I'm really sorry (sorry for bumping this thread but its made me really sadder just reading.

Stay strong mate. I recently bought something agreed to the stuff now they want £18.99 every year :/ And this is a massive company. I feel really bad. But hey. :hug3: Stay strong.