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LaxFB3
January 8th, 2012, 06:21 PM
1.) So, I think I might be in love with my best friend (girl). I'm not sure if I like/love her or not; all I know is that all I look forward to doing during the day is talk to her, I love it when she puts her head on my shoulder/hugs me, and I get this weird feeling when she talks about other guys (i'm not sure if this is jealousy). So my first question; does this sound like more than just best friendship? Or just how its supposed to feel when your best friend is the opposite gender?
2.) When we first me (a little bit more than a year ago, when I moved here) she liked me A LOT. She told me this a month after she started liking me and we became friends. I assumed since then she stopped because she started talking about other guys and gone on dates. But she still says I'm hot, that she loves me, and my contact on her phone is still "Adam<3". So #2; Is it possible that she never got over me?
3.) For a while, I've definitely liked this other girl (but nowhere near "love" or how I could feel about my best friend). I talk about her all the time with my best friend, and my best friend probably would never guess I could like her too. I've also told other kids ( a lot of kids) that I like this girl. So my last question; If I do figure out whether I like my friend or not, how do I manage to tell her when everyone thinks I like this other girl?
I'm sure these probably aren't the hardest questions, and I know it's a lot to read, but I just need to hear other people's opinions on all this. So, Thanks in advance for anything :whoops:

EDIT: Yeah, I know love is definitely not the right word. I guess I might have meant that its just a form of liking that's just different from the typical middle school way of liking someone simply because they are hot or popular.

Sephtyan
January 8th, 2012, 06:31 PM
I don't think this is true love, rather than the highest form of friendship you've experienced so far. There will be more to come, and I can assure you with almost absolute certainty that there will be others you like more. As for her, it seems rather suspicious that she says things like "I love you" and such when she talks about other guys and goes on dates and such. I'm not dissuading you from continuing your friendship with her, but I'd say that you are yet young, and that you have quite a long while to still find your perfect person.