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Dom
May 25th, 2007, 08:41 PM
As most or all of you dont know (depending if you live in Colorado or not) a 14 year old girl died last Saturday. She died in a motor vehicle accident and was partially ejected from the truck. Flight For Life came and carried her to a hospital. On the flight to the hospital she went into cardiac arrest. The medical team worked hard and got her out of it by the time she got to the hospital. Three hours later she went into cardiac arrest again and the medical team went to work again. This time however she gave in and died at 8:00 p.m. She was my friend, Mandy Brown. Her furneral was today along with the coffin being lowered into the ground. I am also 14 and this was the first death that has happened to or effected me. I miss her so much. The girl I love and have gone out, Rachel Inman with was best friends with Mandy. She was also in the car accident and sustained minor injuries but she watced helplessly as her best friend died in front of her. This week has been very hard for all of us at FLMS (being the school she went to) and other schools that had her friends as students. We all miss her very much and love her till the end of the earth. My question is how can I move on? (If you want to know more you can go to Google and type in "Mandy Brown Fort Lupton) :(
annihilate_me
May 25th, 2007, 09:00 PM
Hun, I am sorry for your loss. I know how hurt you are feeling. Believe me it will take a long while until you feel like you can move on. I had my best friend commit suicide. I still haven't got over the fact that he did it, and I will never truely get over it. But, life doesn't stop just because one person dies. You need to make an effort to keep living, especially in a time of emotional chaos. Make a promise to yourself that you will always remember her. Good luck. If you need to talk please feel free to PM me. STAY SAFE!
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Maxx 3 1/2
May 25th, 2007, 09:48 PM
Yes i'm sorry for your loss:( and theres nothing anyone here can say or do that will ever truly help or make it at all better... but you seem like a stroung soal and thats good. Morn your friend morn her good and long thats your right and you need it... I's your way through... It's the way to tomarrow. So remember the good times and all the happyness she brought you, love her and morn her. In time it will all drain out and it will start to get better. You will start to heal. there will always be that scare but someday you'll be able to look back at it with love and joy. but for now let yourself morn it's very important.
some1
May 27th, 2007, 04:14 AM
for now, u have to mourn. She was your friend and you cant expect to get over it too soon. Just mourn, is all i can say.
Ur going to get over it soon, but not in a way that u'll forget about her or something. But u will move on soon and remembering her wont be so painful.
There are times when the pain will come back, but then u'll feel like u can move on again.
Sugaree
August 23rd, 2007, 12:59 AM
Did you like her or anything?
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