Oral?

[x__onyx]

There is this kid I practically love. [see signature] I really want a relationship with him, but I don't know if he feels the exact same.

Anyways, he wants me to give him oral, and I don't know if I should or not.

I've hooked up with him before, like, we've made out and stuff, but I don't know if I should do this.

[He has a history of cheating and lying.]

[Maxx 3 1/2]

hmmm are u too together or dating? i dont know if you should just do it for fun. But if you both got together and wanted feelings and what not together i wouldent see a problem with it. what ever you do you dont wana catch anything.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

DONT DO IT. He just wants you to give him a bj and then he'll dump you 10 minutes later. Fuck that guy; you KNOW for a fact he's known to cheat and lie! Come on! Seriously, why do soo many of you girls go after the guys who will treat you the worst when good guys (like me :D ) are right here in front of you waiting to DO ANYTHING to have you notice them! Gawd!

Sorry, stuff like this gets me really riled up...

[Sage]

There is this kid I practically love. [see signature] I really want a relationship with him, but I don't know if he feels the exact same.

Anyways, he wants me to give him oral, and I don't know if I should or not.

I've hooked up with him before, like, we've made out and stuff, but I don't know if I should do this.

[He has a history of cheating and lying.]

Are you implying that you have no relationship, yet you still do all that shit? Pity on you, but Shame on both.

[Octo22]

Are you implying that you have no relationship, yet you still do all that shit? Pity on you, but Shame on both.

She's not exactly saying she's easy. It's pretty normal in today's society to at least kiss before relationships occur...well 16+ at leasttt.


But look, I'll break this down for you onyx

He's in it for HEAD. You're looking for more (feelings/relationships)

To him this is a simple transaction of "I get head, we're done"

If you expect more from it, you're only going to get hurt, sorry.

[x__onyx]

Thanks.

That helped so much.

[DestroyTheFuture]

just give the guy head. lol. let him suck you, and you suck him.

im serious and kidding there.

obviously, dont just do it if you know he's ONLY in it for head, but, you have to value things.

a lot of guys just kind of get horny and say things like that. tell him that you want to get to know him more (unless you already do, then forget that step) and then when you feel ready, just do it.

personally, i like Handjobs and Blowjobs more than actual sex. i just get more turned on. but the thing is, if i was in your position, id see if it would hurt my reputation, and id see how many bad and good things could come out of it.

if you value the bad things over the good, then dont do it, but, if you valuer the good things over the bad, then there should be nothing stopping you.

[A to the J]

hmmm^ lol id say cut him loose he's a waste of time...

[x__onyx]

just give the guy head. lol. let him suck you, and you suck him.

im serious and kidding there.

obviously, dont just do it if you know he's ONLY in it for head, but, you have to value things.

a lot of guys just kind of get horny and say things like that. tell him that you want to get to know him more (unless you already do, then forget that step) and then when you feel ready, just do it.

personally, i like Handjobs and Blowjobs more than actual sex. i just get more turned on. but the thing is, if i was in your position, id see if it would hurt my reputation, and id see how many bad and good things could come out of it.

if you value the bad things over the good, then dont do it, but, if you valuer the good things over the bad, then there should be nothing stopping you.


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I know you, don't I?

And thanks.

[x__onyx]

hmmm^ lol id say cut him loose he's a waste of time...


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Thanks.