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pineinchneis
January 8th, 2012, 09:45 AM
So I came out to my best friend as gay last night and he took it well I think. I asked him if he wanted to ask me anything he said no which isn't what I expected. In the morning it was a bit awkward and we didn't really talk much and I'm wondering if tomorrow I should try and explain it properly or something?

Carlyle
January 8th, 2012, 06:25 PM
Well, to be fair, you have to try to see it from his angle. If he's known you for a while, and this has never come up and you never discussed it, it could just take a bit to sink in. Things should be okay soon, just leave him be a bit if he needs some time to accept it.

Electra Heart
January 8th, 2012, 11:32 PM
Sure, if that's what you think you should do... CONGRATS! :)

christcenteredlife
January 8th, 2012, 11:37 PM
well bro, there isn't much to explain about being gay. which is a good thing. your friend might just need to process. let him come to you with questions, try not to push things on him.

and i'm excited for you. it's good to hear someone now knows the "real you".

Abyssal Echo
January 11th, 2012, 01:51 PM
yea my friends were a bit taken back....I guess mostly because I do not look or act gay. but they came around we get along fine atleast now I can be myself and not feel like I'm hiding something.