Sexuality

[Tonebone88]

I've heard people say on this site that being gay is more about being emotionally attracted to guys than physically. There are people that are straight that may be turned on by a naked male because they like comparing themselves to that person, so sexual attraction isn't a great indication. I personally am very attracted to guys physically and am more turned on by guys than girls. The problem lies in the fact that I have no relationship experience. I've been attracted to the personality of people of both sexes just because I can talk to them easily. But, I've never had strong emotional feelings for either gender. I think Im gay and thats how I wouls d identify right now, but i can't be sure. So how do I know if I'm gay or not?

[Scotland]

Im gay. Like really gay. Me and my boyfriend have had sex more than six times.

Innapropriate, unhelpful and generally un-needed

As for the OP,
Physical attraction and emotional connection are only 2 of the things that make up your sexuality, the third ... is probably non existent to most as a "thing that chooses your sexuality" but personally i think it mostly comes down to gut feeling, you might be very physically attracted to a woman but your gut feeling just tells you that you want to date a guy. Dont be forced into making a decision, take your time and find out whats your comfortable with, if you wanna make a move on a guy then go ahead and vice versa.

You only live once, make the most of it and have fun :)

-Scotland

[biboikyle]

Innapropriate, unhelpful and generally un-needed

As for the OP,
Physical attraction and emotional connection are only 2 of the things that make up your sexuality, the third ... is probably non existent to most as a "thing that chooses your sexuality" but personally i think it mostly comes down to gut feeling, you might be very physically attracted to a woman but your gut feeling just tells you that you want to date a guy. Dont be forced into making a decision, take your time and find out whats your comfortable with, if you wanna make a move on a guy then go ahead and vice versa.

You only live once, make the most of it and have fun :)

-Scotland


I completely agree with this!!