Confused with sexuality

[ponygon101]

Okay, here's the thing. I'm more interested in looking at guys than at girls. If I find a guy I think is hot, I'd rather look at him than at a girl I think is. It's not that I'm interested in having anything sexual with him, it's more that I look at their bodies as a reflection of what I'd like to see in my own.

I get much more aroused looking at a guy's than a girl's. Yet, I don't wanted to do anything with a guy, but I do want with a girl. Along with not wanting to do anything sexual with a guy, have absolutely no intentions of dating or having a future with a guy.

I think many more guys are hot than I think girls are. But that's possibly because there are so many girls that look good that "hot" has become the new normal.

For me, looking at a really hot guy is enough to get me hard but looking at girl doesn't make me hard at all. I have little experience but I feel that a girl would be able to arouse me with some actions.

The point is: I'm aroused by guys, not really by girls; I'd rather have sex with a girl than with a guy and I want a future with a girl, not a guy.

So I'm confused with what my sexuality is, am I gay? Straight? Bi? Please give your opinion and try to be understanding. Thanks!

[senior.2013]

Depending on your age, you are most likely curious. I went through the same thing, but its wearing itself down. I would wait untill your hormones have died down towards the end of puberty to determine your "gay, straight, bi" dilema.

[corbin052198]

You might just be curious, but you should probably post this on the Teen Sexuality forum to get better answers.

[aussie101]

im exactly the same, i get hard from boys instead of girls.....

[Shadowhunter]

I don't really believe in going with a label right away or at all. I don't think anyone can really tell you what your sexuality is , it's something you alone will know- we can say what it would seem like from our perspective but it's yours that matters. So I'd say go along with whatever feels right and you will have your answer label or no label.

[Wakesetter03]

As the others mentioned, wait until your hormones have settled down before worry about your orientation.
From what it sounds you aren't gay, possibly bi, but I wouldn't be certain because the attraction is only physical and not mental, so I'd hazard a guess that you're just curious.
Just don't worry and enjoy life. If you want to look at guys, look at guys :)

[RedInkLies]

I don't think there's really a need to put a label on it. You're a guy who could see himself physically with women, but not with men despite finding them attractive. I know tons of guys who would rather gawk at a man than a hot girl and none of them are gay in the slightest bit.

[Ambrosia]

P101:arrow:Teen Sexuality

[Levy]

Like the others said, you're probably just curious; otherwise, you are just in huge denial about not wanting to bang a guy and try to focus women to help with your denial.

[niiick]

I am the same, I think it is partly hormones, either that or you are just curious. I think there are many people in the same situation but you just have to give your self time to decide what your sexuality by hormones settling down and experimenting with your sexuality.