When I think of a future with a guy. My mind goes blank??? Where am I at sexually???

[Cicero]

I'm concerned I might be bisexual, when I think of guys and a future with them. My mind goes blank and I can't even think, it's like I can't even imagine that far. Yet when I think of a future with a girl, I can think of it. So whenever I'm really bored and no one is around, I imagine a really succesful future and I imagine doing interviews and stuff. And whenever I imagine/day dream that I am always with a wife. Always.

Theirs guys out their that I go crazy about, I tend to stare at them. But I don't do that much with girls only really pretty girls. I feel like I'm very picky with girls, theirs probably 1 in every 45 girls that I really like and that I stare at. But with guys theirs probably 1 in every 25-30 guys.

Also with guys. I feel like I want their looks badly, but I also mostly want their body, I'm obsessed with getting that perfect body. Could that be a reason why I like guys?

So theirs a few of these guys I know, they seem perfect and on my iPhone I saved their pic in my photos. Does this mean I'm gay?

What does all this mean?
Why does my mind go blank and I can't think of a future with guys, but with girls it's more clear? What does this mean?
Is this just hormones?

I believe when everyone gets older they won't be that attractive, it's like I only like guys who are teenagers. Does this mean anything? (one thing all the guys have in common is a perfect body)

Don't get offended but I really don't want to be gay. But I like girls, it's just that I have extremely low self esteem. To get this straight I like girls and I would want to date one and I like imagining making out with a girl in the movie theatre that's what I imagine. But I feel like theirs not many girls I find beautiful, I feel they have to look like Kim kardashian.

With girls I tend to pick them apart and look at then very closely, but theirs only a few girls I think look perfect. What does this mean?


Thanks for having patience with me! This is a subject I worry about. So thanks again!

[Gigablue]

If you don't have an emotional attraction to both sexes, you're probably not bisexual. You seem to be emotionally attracted only to girls, but sexually attracted to both sexes. This is probably just a result of hormones and puberty, and might go away as you get older.

It's fairly normal to be attracted to attractive people and not to less attractive people. It varies from person to person as to who you find attractive. There is also a difference between being attracted to someone and just being envious of their body.

You're probably not bisexual, but if you are there's nothing you can do about it except accept it.

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: