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Stefanie
January 6th, 2012, 06:54 PM
There's this boy I like at school that is weird and acts a little crazy but is really sweet and everyone always picks on him and calls him very harsh words but he is very nice to me. I was wondering how to ask him out with out really asking him cause I'm a little shy and is worried what others might think of me, I know I shouldn't care but I have Low self esteem.
christianteen
January 6th, 2012, 07:18 PM
Ask him out but keep the relationship out of school.
Dimitri
January 6th, 2012, 08:09 PM
Hey hun, just ask him, and don't play games or beat around the bush....

Here is something that will help you out a lot and my girlfriend knows that and it has saved us a lot of fighting.

We guys are morons, we do not get the subtle hints that you drop or the little glints of your eyes....we need hit over the head with a METAPHORICAL 2 by 4. Please, just be completely straight forward and honest, this has helped so much.
Shortie
January 7th, 2012, 12:24 PM
Aww I think that's really sweet of you Stefanie, if you think he might like you (or even not) just ask him. You say he is very nice to you so chances are, he might be thinking the same. If you do ask him, just pick a private moment and if he says no, don't feel too bad..maybe he's not ready. Life is to short to worry over a boy that may or may not reject you. Best of luck!
Eclipsical
January 7th, 2012, 12:38 PM
ask him. if he says no, big deal. move on.
RCT109
March 22nd, 2012, 07:29 AM
There's this boy I like at school that is weird and acts a little crazy but is really sweet and everyone always picks on him and calls him very harsh words but he is very nice to me. I was wondering how to ask him out with out really asking him cause I'm a little shy and is worried what others might think of me, I know I shouldn't care but I have Low self esteem.

OK this is coming from a guys POV who is in the reverse situation except the girl i like is nothing like him.

Here is my advice, talk to him a lot and after a few days try throwing a few questions in there that hint at your feelings and then just ask him.

The others are right he may like you too.

Hope I helped
Shawn