how do i know if hes holding out on me or just doesnt like it anymore

[hoosierboy]

Been fooling around with a best friend for about a year now and its always off and on. Like we will have sex with each other for a few weeks then we take a break if you can call it that. we have never talked about it it always just happend then we were done time for bed. But now its been months and we have done nothing im just starting to wonder if hes holding out on me because he knows i like it or if he is ashamed, should i ask but i feel that will mess up or end the physical relationship. What should i do?

[scottnesss]

iv had a similar situation to you, except it was for two years and it was every weekend.

the best thing to do, is talk about it. you need to talk about it and see where things are going, why they happen and if you both want them to continue.

you may have to accept that the physical relationship is over however and if that is the case, forcus on keeping the friendship.

[hoosierboy]

So did your experence stop when you talked about it? See i live with the guy as friends amd i feel that hes just messin with me cause he likes to hold things over your head if he nos u like it or enjoy something, i know he likes it as much as i do if not more

[scottnesss]

our time together stopped for other reasons. if you live with him then i really think you should talk about.

[hoosierboy]

How should i bring it up tho, we have never said one word about it or during...

[scottnesss]

when you on your own, just bring it up, bluntly or not, its up to you