Friends...

[colinbirddaword]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and I thought it might help to ask all you guys. I have a friend that I think might be interested in me but he isn't gay (or at least he hasn't told anyone if he is). We sit next to each other in choir and he is VERY physical with me. Like not in a bad way but he tickles me and touches my butt and all that. And when we text we always use hearts and stuff for eachother. And sometimes im 100% sure he's into me and other times I can't tell at all. So im just wondering if any of you guys have ever had this happen, and how did it turn out/how can you be sure about it? Oh and im bi but not out to anyone.

[disassociation2016]

He might be into you. You just gotta find a way to advance things very casually.

[Scotland]

Just be blunt with him, Ask him straight up if he has feelings for you and see what he says, you might be surprised to find that he was just overly friendly, or he might actually like you.

If he likes you, do you like him back? If not, again just be honest with him, if he's really your friend then this wont get in the way of your friendship :)

-Scotland

[colinbirddaword]

Just be blunt with him, Ask him straight up if he has feelings for you and see what he says, you might be surprised to find that he was just overly friendly, or he might actually like you.

If he likes you, do you like him back? If not, again just be honest with him, if he's really your friend then this wont get in the way of your friendship :)

-Scotland

Yeah, ill try that. Ehh, I don't know. We're really close and I guess I could
haha but thanks.

[Can'tHelpIt]

I'd txt him like "Dude, blah blah"

[BeyondOne]

This has happened to me so many times it's not even funny. Like you, I'm not out either, but a kid who plays trumpet in the band is always hitting on me, sending me messages with weird smile faces, hearts, etc. What I want to do it invite him over for a sleep over and just talk. See if he will come out and say anything about us or about our emotions/feelings.

[Abyssal Echo]

sounds 2 me that hes interested sleep overs are always a nice way to find out....worked 4 me

[colinbirddaword]

This has happened to me so many times it's not even funny. Like you, I'm not out either, but a kid who plays trumpet in the band is always hitting on me, sending me messages with weird smile faces, hearts, etc. What I want to do it invite him over for a sleep over and just talk. See if he will come out and say anything about us or about our emotions/feelings.

Ill probably do that. Haha and thanks I didn't think of that before :)

[BeyondOne]

Ill probably do that. Haha and thanks I didn't think of that before :)

No problem at all :) Good luck and I hope everything works out

[Mysterio12345]

I have the same problem .... Like I'm just curious and always Said to my self I'll never have an emotional attraction to any guys and then I bagan to like my best friend and I thought he prob lked me back because he always did things to make me think that , and then I finally told him and well he's straight and doest like me like that and that I should'nt express in towards him in school. But we're still normal and he still does the things that made me fall for him and he still gets close to me which only makes things harder. I still always wonder if there's hope because he said he used to be curious but no longer is /: .... Do you guys think there's hope?

[UnknownBoi98]

Try Too Ask Him But Don't Just Come Out Of The Blue About It, Find A Way Too Find Out.

[colinbirddaword]

[/LIST]b]No problem at all :) Good luck and I hope everything works out

Thanks man :) I guess we'll see! Haha

[Wesley1369]

i would just ease into it very slowly, see what happens. make him make the first move but just let him know somehow that what hes doing is cool with you. he might just be trying to be funny or something who knows. good luck, btw i would avoid just asking him straight up unless you are really sure

[danny7]

im going through that same ting but we dont txt.. im pretty sure hes into me but im not so sure hes gay bcuz he hasn't come out to anyone ..

[jhsjsams719]

choir kids are just like that lolol
same with my choir

[TurboDieselBandit]

Believe me when I say, you never know what will happen at a sleep over :D Its cool if you say "Okay" to everyones responses but be sure to commit to trying something that wont be weird and out of place but will allow you both to know the truth about how each other feel. I've been in similar situations, although with less "signs" and I just don't want you to miss an opportunity. Like I said, you never know what will happen at a sleep over after you say how you really feel; I know this from experience.

[Human]

yeah invite him to a sleepover or something and tread carefully but advance and ask him :P

[colinbirddaword]

Im not going to make any moves on him guys. Haha I don't even know if im into him. I wouldn't ever make him feel bad or awkward about making a move on me though and I wouldn't stop it either. I just wanted to know whether or not he probably has feelings. But im definitely going to try the sleepover and ill let you guys know what he does :)

[dryumyum]

nah...just ask him..politely..nothing will happen

[caden048]

Same thing is happening to me right now....

[CJM123]

just ask him directly.