Beerwar
January 5th, 2012, 11:30 PM
Hey, Ive just joined to ask questions about relationships etc etc..
Just one thing ive gotta say before I start.
(My english is not great, sorry for spelling mistakes.)
Hey name Steven and im 17yrs old, Ive had 4 relationships and 3 hasn't been great..
My 1st one dumped me coz I moved and seeing each other was just wayy to hard.. :(
2nd was she wanted to have a relationship then suddenly didnt..
3rd girlfriend went thorugh boyfriends like cloths.. (whatever..)
4th last girlfriend was I was going to go out when I went to visit a school and she suddenly liked me but went out with a mate of my and after they broke up she regretted going out with him.. Then she went out with me 2weeks before she left school..
But my main reason is coz of my 4th gf went out with another boy in college without telling me anythink. Like I wasn't going out with her and was a dream.. We texted each other the hoildays and called, but when I heared she was going out with another guy, my heart died..
After I left school and went to the same college as her, I've wanted to go back out with her.. Only problem was that she said "She didnt want another relationship".. I was down completely when she said that..
After months went by, we had been chatting about each others lives and how bad & good they've been and I just don't know if she still loves me or just likes me as a friend.. We smile alot and laugh when we look at each other and ive never asked her why she didnt say anythink when she was going out with another boy.. My heart+nervs stop me from saying.. Another problem is that too many boys hang around her and can't seem to talk to her 1 to 1 and ask about relationships..
Im afraid she may turn me down saying "no, dont want a relationship" or some sort of saying like that..
Im not sure if she afraid of saying yes coz of the other boys that hang around her 24/7 or somethink else..
Saying all this, all I ask for is an advice of what I could say to her to see if she does "like" me or just wants to be friends. :(
Please help!
Just one thing ive gotta say before I start.
(My english is not great, sorry for spelling mistakes.)
Hey name Steven and im 17yrs old, Ive had 4 relationships and 3 hasn't been great..
My 1st one dumped me coz I moved and seeing each other was just wayy to hard.. :(
2nd was she wanted to have a relationship then suddenly didnt..
3rd girlfriend went thorugh boyfriends like cloths.. (whatever..)
4th last girlfriend was I was going to go out when I went to visit a school and she suddenly liked me but went out with a mate of my and after they broke up she regretted going out with him.. Then she went out with me 2weeks before she left school..
But my main reason is coz of my 4th gf went out with another boy in college without telling me anythink. Like I wasn't going out with her and was a dream.. We texted each other the hoildays and called, but when I heared she was going out with another guy, my heart died..
After I left school and went to the same college as her, I've wanted to go back out with her.. Only problem was that she said "She didnt want another relationship".. I was down completely when she said that..
After months went by, we had been chatting about each others lives and how bad & good they've been and I just don't know if she still loves me or just likes me as a friend.. We smile alot and laugh when we look at each other and ive never asked her why she didnt say anythink when she was going out with another boy.. My heart+nervs stop me from saying.. Another problem is that too many boys hang around her and can't seem to talk to her 1 to 1 and ask about relationships..
Im afraid she may turn me down saying "no, dont want a relationship" or some sort of saying like that..
Im not sure if she afraid of saying yes coz of the other boys that hang around her 24/7 or somethink else..
Saying all this, all I ask for is an advice of what I could say to her to see if she does "like" me or just wants to be friends. :(
Please help!