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TheCbailey07
January 5th, 2012, 10:46 PM
Ok, i like this girl im in school with. We have 5 classes together and talk a lot like friends. She plays this thing like she doesn't like me, but i can tell its a joke because she's not a mean person.
Sometimes during class, i find her staring at me. When i see her doing this, she casually looks away. I she might have a boyfriend but im not sure. I want to ask her out before the end of year dance. (Not for the dance but as a bf, gf thing, just going to the dance as part of it)

Im not the most attractive, i wear glasses, but i look better in contacts, i don't wear high waters our any unfitting cloths. Some might consider me a nerd because im really smart, but im not huge glasses, pocket protecters, and really bad achny. I have a clear face and Aro, clothing.

Tell me if you think she likes me and how to ask her out. (Before the end of the year)

I dont want an answer like "just ask her out". I wana find a way to change how she feels about me.
Oh, and P.S. She knows i like her, but the question still is, does she like me?


12/13/11
Ok, i still don't know if she has a boy friend, but i know this other boy likes her and just got her #, but has not asked her out.
I also made a fool of myself in front of her because... lets just say i am bad at "2 for flinching" because i ended up with 12 punches, and let me say this kid punches hard! I ended up running around the room, running from the punches. And i couldn't block them because then, that would be considered "flinching".

She ended up laughing. But she puts up the "i hate you" game and allways laughs at me when i will trip or hit my funny bone, or something like that.

01/05/12

So, i set her up with a friend of mine. Got a girlfriend (not her :-( ), she thought i was joking, broke up with me, after i bought her a neckalace.
Now were woking on a project together( not the ex, her). I have her number and we txt and call each other all the time.

She keeps making fun of me in a playfull way, not 2 hurt, just because she can.
Also, there's this other girl that im starting to have feelings for. But i dont want to move on with her yet. Its a long story, but... yea. Soo help and advice wud be great.

screamtobeheard
January 6th, 2012, 09:18 AM
I'm confused. Why did you set her up with someone else if you like her? Is she still going out with him?

Spook
January 6th, 2012, 10:51 AM
I'm pretty confused too. It sounds like more of a friendly thing, but the texting sounds more playing on the edge on like. It sounds a little bit like she's teasing. As for the other girl--why'd you do that if you like this girl- and why'd you set this girl up? Anyways, I suggest to not mess around with games and just talk to her. Don't do it over text, it's hard to be sincere, and frankly not sociable. Talk to her face-to-face to let her know you mean it. Or maybe ask her out? There's no hurt in trying, unless your friend is still with her.

TheCbailey07
January 6th, 2012, 10:04 PM
To Clearify, i set her up in a effort to get to know her better. When i broke up in my last relationship, she helped me work through it. I got really close to her then which has made us really good friends. The other girl i like has no phone so i cant txt her, but i still have girl number 1's number and we txt all the time, and sometimes call. And yes, there still going out, but no one likes them together because he keeps getting into fights.