Sex when your body is tired?

[hallo]

I feel like i might be losing my virginity soon, and i want it to be as good as possible, i know thats tough to do your first time but anyways i had a question. I notices that i was cumming faster a few months ago when i worked out everyday and skated for hockey. Then now that tryouts are over and the working out has slowed down a bit i seem to take longer to cum. Like especially over christmas vacation. Anyways im wondering this becuase im going to pick up working out/wieght lifting again soon, and im also playing hockey, and im sure my body will be constantly tired, even though im going to try and get as much sleep as possible.
So my question is-
-Is this kind of thing true?
-If im constantly working out/excersising am i going to cum quicker during sex?
-Is it possible that it might take me longer to cum?
-Anyone have personal experiences, or any info regarding this kind of thing?
Any help will do, Thanks

[Gordo]

Wow, that's thinkin ahead. I say relax and when it happens it happens. It's not like you have to prepare for a rocket launch and you know what? Your first time isn't gonna be perfect! Why would it be? Think of your hockey, first time you laced up skates was probably awkward and clumbsy. Same for any physical activity.

You won't cum any quicker or slower, it'll more depend on when you last had an orgasm. I doubt you run out of energy either cuz it isn't like it's gonna take you an hour.

[hallo]

Wow, that's thinkin ahead. I say relax and when it happens it happens. It's not like you have to prepare for a rocket launch and you know what? Your first time isn't gonna be perfect! Why would it be? Think of your hockey, first time you laced up skates was probably awkward and clumbsy. Same for any physical activity.

You won't cum any quicker or slower, it'll more depend on when you last had an orgasm. I doubt you run out of energy either cuz it isn't like it's gonna take you an hour.

yeah but the thing is, any girl that i might have sex with, has already has sex, as far as i know of, and i would like it for myself to be as good as possible so i dont look like a retard

[Gordo]

yeah but the thing is, any girl that i might have sex with, has already has sex, as far as i know of, and i would like it for myself to be as good as possible so i dont look like a retard

Well..... Guess what, you'll only look like a tard if you dwell on it. If you set this high expectation of perfection and don't meet it, then what?

I think we all need to learn to laugh at ourselves when trying something new. What if you blow your load in 20 seconds? Is that the end of the world? Or do you look like a retard ? (as you put it) I say no you don't because lets say the girl your with has been with 3 guys already that are you age. All of them could have cum just as quickly and you'd be viewed as normal even though it was so short. So in that case being normal isn't that great.

What if you lose it in 20 seconds and the other guys lasted 20 minutes? I'd laugh it off and assure her I have reserves and not just one reserve. I'd laugh at myself and say, "well, that was quicker than i thought it would be, let's keep going until you feel good, cuz thats pretty much why im here - for us to have fun feelin' good. I don't claim i know what im doin', but lets have fun with it until I or we figure it out. "

also, maybe I don't worry about stuff enough, but that's how I've always been and it's not like every part of my life is great or anything, i just cope with stuff thats not great with humor direccted at myself.

example, dropped a glass last week, it's all over the kitchen, my mom looks at me and i say, wow that broke easy!

[sarahann95]

It's your first time; it's not going to be perfect. And honestly, you need practice to get better--and no, I am not telling you to be constantly having sex. And as stated, you don't really know what is "normal" to that girl. As Gordo stated, don't stress so much about it. Just learn to shrug/laugh it off if it doesn't go well and continue going at it until she feels good. Unless you are severely out of shape, I highly doubt you'll get tired quickly.

[hallo]

It's your first time; it's not going to be perfect. And honestly, you need practice to get better--and no, I am not telling you to be constantly having sex. And as stated, you don't really know what is "normal" to that girl. As Gordo stated, don't stress so much about it. Just learn to shrug/laugh it off if it doesn't go well and continue going at it until she feels good. Unless you are severely out of shape, I highly doubt you'll get tired quickly.

Yeah i know but to be honest i have somewhat of a reputation to hold and i dont want to look like shit if i dont perform well. Im not expecting to go for 30 minutes but i would like to at least last a little while. Also not a lot of people have sex, especially in my group of friends, so me going through with it would be a huge deal, and the better i am, the better IT goes, the better everything will be for me. I also like the girl and dont want to look like an ass in front of her.

[Rayquaza]

I dont think you would enjoy it that much if you were tired.

[Abyssal Echo]

yeah but the thing is, any girl that i might have sex with, has already has sex, as far as i know of, and i would like it for myself to be as good as possible so i dont look like a retard

The first girl I had sex with was a virgin it was over in no time.....but she never complained or said anything bad about it.

All I can say is relax....when shes ready it will happen.....and when you least expect it.