what do you lokk for...

[melia_allen]

What do you look for in a boy/girl?

[Kaius]

I look for someone I can have a good time with, someone i can be serious with and someone I can count on when I need them. Generally I don't really care for looks over personality because overall its their personality thats going to affect your relationship in the long run. I prefer them to be kind and trustworthy and tbh im not that much of an easy person to be with so someone that can see through my bad moods and grumpiness and just see me for me which i know can be difficult sometimes. I'm not a fan of being clinged onto but i don't like the idea of not seeing them for days on end either or being the only one to make an effort to see/talk to each other so mutual contact is a must as well. Luckily I have all of this currently so I'm a very happy guy :P

[melia_allen]

lol wow and congrats :)

[davyangelomcclure]

I looking for someone who love me so much

[GummyBear]

Someone who you can enjoy life with! Someone who has a 'good personality'.
A person who cares and appreciates the minor details of life!
And generally someone who can basically get on with me and that i like!

[melia_allen]

what is a good personality in your terms?

[GummyBear]

what is a good personality in your terms?

Someone who is funny... full of life but not overly full of life like full of themselves. That certainly is not a good thing, can't stand arrogance!

Does that explain in further?

[Jess]

someone that is trustworthy, loving, and understanding.

[melia_allen]

lol awesome opposums

Someone who is funny... full of life but not overly full of life like full of themselves. That certainly is not a good thing, can't stand arrogance!

Does that explain in further?
lol yes that does explain in further depth...thank you

what i look for in a guy....sweet, smart, funny, caring, honest, understanding, able to trust, adores kids, likes to play sports, not too clingy, respectful...


Please don't double post, use the edit button - Kaius

[kenoloor]

logical, pragmatic, not romantic or overly emotional, dry sense of humor, not clingy at all or constantly needing to PDA, independent, doesn't take shit, doesn't let shit fly with others, tells it like it is and doesn't sugar-coat.

[melia_allen]

nice :)

[Fishcustard]

Someone who I'm happy to be with doing anything, who can make me feel like she likes me as much as I like her and who i can talk to and not feel like I'm boring her. Perhaps most importantly, I look for someone I can be friends with, and just a bit more.

I'll leave it at that. Going into more detail would just be me describing my girlfriend! :rolleyes:

[melia_allen]

wahoo!

[Levy]

Someone intelligent, humorous, easy on the eyes. Somebody that can handle me when I'm at my worst. A person that I can laugh, cry, and easily talk to.

[melia_allen]

kewlio

[Spook]

Overall, I think that the most important thing to look for in a relationship is somebody who you can have fun with- and not feel awkward or uncomfortable. I have found myself feeling like that with past relationships, and that is when you know the person is not right for you. Personality and fun are the two major things, in my opinion. :)

[melia_allen]

true..true

[Anselmo]

A pretty girl that it's not dumb, with a good sense of humor and with no mustache...

[melia_allen]

lol so the majority of the girls then?

[Anselmo]

Yes....

[melia_allen]

lol okay :)

[Bard95]

A fun, funny girl who can take a joke and give em back. Someone who is relaxed, but mainly truthful, no matter what. I cannot stand liars!!!

[VirtualTeen9000]

im looking for someone who can love me . someone that i wont have to be on the phone for hours talking random stuff. a walk in the park would be nice. a funny,cute girl that understands me and my jokes , that likes at least some thing that i like , that isn't shy and one that i'll know after the whole thing wont go talk sh*t ( sorry about this ) about me after all the time i loved and cared .

[jbs1125]

Someone I can talk to for hours. Laid back and relatively care free, rarely stressed. Someone I can trust with everything and will listen to what I have to say and honestly talk about themselves more than I talk about myself (which I recently realize I do more than I'd like). And I Would love if they listen to the same music I do. And it can't ever be akward or uncomfortable, in my last relationship I never felt really comfortable until we broke up now we get along really well. Can't forget! Super outgoing.

[Idontevenliftbro]

I'm kind of picky... lol.

A girl who loves the same types of music I love ( hard to find ) . She has to be cute/pretty. Looks do matter to a certain extent. She can't be a mainstream follower who follows all of the trends in school. The trend now is Snapbacks and shuffling ( smh ) . Has to be 5'9 or shorter. Good hygiene. No girls with big feet! :D A smart girl, who has a humorous side . One who isn't too clingy, but still lets me know every now and then that she misses me. Could go on for awhile, but i'm going to stop here. :)

[Dimitri]

SOmeone who is honest, kind and smart. She speaks her mind and is not afraid of anything, looks are a pick with me.

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

Someone who has a positive attitude, good sense of humor and is more romantic/emotional and idealistic about love than pragmatic and logical. I suppose I would also want someone who is... hm, I can't think of a good word, devoted? Just someone who I can really rely on.

Female or male, gender doesn't really matter

[TheHumanSpirit]

Someone who is playful yet respectful, mature, reliable, caring, understanding, intelligent, and exciting. They don't have to look like a 10 (attractiveness), but they do need to have good hygiene. A good, likeable personality is essential for me; if they're beautiful on the inside, then I'm sure they'll become beautiful on the outside regardless of their physical appearance.

[FlyingSlightly]

Well, as always, I can only speak for myself. I didn't really know what I was looking for until I found it. They make me laugh, and think deeply. They're intelligent, but fun. They know what they believe and they have conviction. They're motivated in life. They want to change the world for the better. But more importantly than all of that. They make me feel safe, they're there for me like I'm there for them. They make me feel important and special, and wanted. They stand up for me and remind me that I'm valued.

Looks are secondary, but not unimportant. I'm not very picky, but you do need to stay within what conventions would say are average.

[Craig1995]

I dont really get what people mean by what do u look for I'm just attracted to someone or I'm not :s and sometimes that person comes along and there just perfect to you it's never been anything specific for me tho :) xD

[Fiction]

I need people that I can get on with on every level if that makes sense. I need someone that can "provide" I guess for every side of my personality. I need someone that I can have fun with, and joke around with. Someone who gets my jokes and someone who I find funny. I also need someone that I can have serious and deep conversations with. That I can talk about the meaning of life with and they won't get bored :P And they'll have a serious input. I need someone who can look after me. As pathetic as that sounds, I need a lot of support a lot of the time. It's a lot to ask but at the end of the day it's that that shows how much someone cares. I need someone I can trust as well. I guess the most important thing for me at the end of the day is that someone loves and cares about me as much as I do them, and for once in my life I can say I have all of that in my boyfriend.

It's not just about how they treat me though. I need someone that's fair to other people, and friendly.

As for looks, I never find anyone attractive until I like their personality. It's almost like a mental block for me :P I can't see people as sexually attractive at all until I love them as a person. As long as someone is half decent, their personality is the most important part. Of course being amazingly sexy like my current boyfriend is just a huge bonus ;)

[Donkey]

Someone smart enough to understand what I'm trying to say most of the time... very relaxed and chill about most everything, similar state of mind to me, non judgmental... and somewhat attractive, at least, I mean not like I make a decision based on that but if someone is just so unattractive, the physical side of the relationship is not gonna be there. There is a certain personality that does it, right? Like not everyone is appropriate, even if they fill the above fields. It's mostly a thing of judging every individual on their merits

[melia_allen]

okay

[zencoran]

someone who is cute, enjoys lots of humor, and doesn't mind formal things. Like i Always ask a girl out in person, and ive always asked my previous girlfriends in a big deal kinda way for each date. I don't do PDA, but i won't have anything against just holding her

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[Ambrosia]

SOmeone who is honest, kind and smart. She speaks her mind and is not afraid of anything, looks are a pick with me.

Robzy, darling, we were meant for each other <3
I joke :) But onto another note.
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I'm not sure what I look for anymore. I WANT someone who is nice, but not overly nice like, "I know you slept with my bestfriend last night but I forgive you!" Someone who is likes tattoos, and actually makes me feel happy for once. I'm hoping this will happen one day, because I've never been in a relationship that I was happy in.

[black thirteenth]

Someone with a nice personality who will be honest with me and who I could talk with about. Our problems someone who would accept me for who I am would love me like I love them and someone who I could just lye with under the stars and listen to their heart

[melia_allen]

nice =)

[curryjacket]

I want a girl that can light the room up with her smile and eyes. Looks aren't a big deal to me as long as she looks nice. I'm more into her personality. I want someone that is her own person, and doesn't care what others think. <3

[CaluM.]

Personality is more of a value to me.

A good personality that I like is someone that is very loving, trustworthy, caring and friendly. like girls who are chilled and can hang out with no matter what they look like e.g bad hair or makeup. A sense of humour, good music taste and good personal hygiene are also key for me.

What I don't like/hate is them stuck up people that think they are better than you one way or another, basically the high maintenance people. :/

If I had to state my favourite physical features I would just want a cute/innocent looking girl that has a cute smile with some nice hair, which I love long scene/emo hair.

I think everyone wants similar personalities it is just the physical features people prefer. e.g. complexion, hair, height etc.

Hope this helped :)

[MalditoDia]

Someone who is funny , smart, knows how to listen and understand, caring, and can help with my work.

[unnamed94]

there is not something i specifically look in a girl (personality or physical appearance or whatever). i just look for someone i like and i can get along with, someone i love.

[melia_allen]

cute...