View Full Version : Does everyone here masturbate?
christianteen
January 5th, 2012, 12:27 AM
It seems like everyone besides me on this site masturbates.
Is this true? Is there another rare person here who doesn't 'pleasure' themselves?
It just seems like it because everyone here does it because they talk about doing it and I've seen practically everyone on the puberty quizzes say that they do it on a regular basis.
Wakesetter03
January 5th, 2012, 12:40 AM
I think you'll find the majority of people between 12-20 masturbate regularly.
It's a healthy practise that most enjoy.
If its your choice not to masturbate, congratulations for sticking to it.
ImCoolBeans
January 5th, 2012, 12:57 AM
The majority of all men do.
Ender
January 5th, 2012, 01:11 AM
The fact of the matter is, a large majority of people masturbate. Not everyone, i personally have 2 friends that i know for a fact dont. Its just a choice.
Smith98
January 5th, 2012, 01:42 AM
It's a personal choice I guess. I'd say more guys do than girls but a ton of girls do to. To be honest Ill never quite understand why some don't.:confused:
Silicate Wielder
January 5th, 2012, 03:37 PM
Yeah, my dad knows i maturbate, he said "I noticed you've been playing with your clothes alot, don't worry I used to do the same thing when i was your age."
jimmyboy92
January 5th, 2012, 03:40 PM
I don't masterbate either...
Fishcustard
January 5th, 2012, 04:29 PM
I can't imagine going more than a week without masturbating...
I say a week because of one rather horrible family vacation a year ago:eek:
bdrew22
January 5th, 2012, 04:55 PM
I don't masterbate either...
I don't get how boys don't masterbate...... Would you really rather just like blow ur load in ur sleep n make a huge mess...... Ew.... I respect ur choice ... I just don't get it
MalditoDia
January 5th, 2012, 05:08 PM
everyone does.
Gordo
January 5th, 2012, 05:14 PM
Well I used to think every guy did until this post. So far there is you Christian and another guy. One guy said he'd go a week wo doing it. If I didn't do it I couldn't think straight, wouldn't sleep well and be hard more often than I am now, which would be more awk than it already is.
Anyway, good post. You have a lot more free time than I do because of it!
jimmyboy92
January 5th, 2012, 05:16 PM
I don't get how boys don't masterbate...... Would you really rather just like blow ur load in ur sleep n make a huge mess...... Ew.... I respect ur choice ... I just don't get it
I'm 19 and I never have......I don't feel the need to, and I don't like touching it. So its not like I really have to try not to do it lol, . It's Very rare for me to have wet dreams anyway, its not like I wake up in a puddle every morning lol.....infact it hasn't happened for weeks now...
christianteen
January 5th, 2012, 06:11 PM
I'd much rather just cum in my sleep. I just find fondling my genitals to be kind of wierd. I admit that I used to do it but not anymore. It's hard giving up but it's worth it. I feel healthier and generally happier. When I mastubated, I felt very rancorous and it gave me a wierd illness that I didn't tell anyone about. When I went to eat or drink anything, including water, I'd dry-reach or throw up.
Anyways, that's kind of off topic.
Gordo
January 5th, 2012, 06:28 PM
I'm 19 and I never have......I don't feel the need to, and I don't like touching it. So its not like I really have to try not to do it lol, . It's Very rare for me to have wet dreams anyway, its not like I wake up in a puddle every morning lol.....infact it hasn't happened for weeks now...
If I didn't masturbate I'd be anxious or something along those lines. Uptight or jumpy. I wouldn't call it nervous though. I don't know how old you are jimmy but I need to do it. I'll sit down and do some homework and i'll get hard even though I'm trying to get work done. It wont go away. I ignore it and figure it eventually will, then my thought go to things that make me horny because im throbbing in my pants. At that point, I do it just to get rid of it so i can get back to work. I'm not saying i didn't like it, but I'd rather the need would leave me alone when I'm busy.
You said you don't like touching it. Not sure what you mean. To pee we pretty much have to, so it isn't a like dislike for me it's just something we do so I idk what there is to not like. anyway, most of us like doing it, but in my homework example, I just wanna get my homework done and move on, but it's like the need pesters me and wont go away and the longer i ignore it, the worse it gets. If I ignore it during homework and fall asleep doing homework, I won't set my alarm so I wake up late. So no masturbation that night or day so far. I'm really wired at school all day, as well as horny and more erections. If I'm playing a sport right after school, then it just builds up worse. So I kinda think you got a good thing going on if you don't need to do it. cuz most of us here wouldn't last too long without it and end up having wet dreams which i kinda like, but would rather have a controlled mess instead of a surprise mess.
Chris95
January 5th, 2012, 06:42 PM
I'd much rather just cum in my sleep. I just find fondling my genitals to be kind of wierd. I admit that I used to do it but not anymore. It's hard giving up but it's worth it. I feel healthier and generally happier. When I mastubated, I felt very rancorous and it gave me a wierd illness that I didn't tell anyone about. When I went to eat or drink anything, including water, I'd dry-reach or throw up.
Anyways, that's kind of off topic.
That doesn't sound healthy at all and just abstaining from it isn't going to solve your problem. What happens when you get married and it's time to have sex? Are you not going to do that either?
You might want to go see a doctor. You don't even have to tell your parents that specifically but it still would benefit you to go.
Spence97
January 6th, 2012, 09:17 AM
yep, pretty much every guy does it except a very small few
jimmyboy92
January 6th, 2012, 11:06 AM
I'd much rather just cum in my sleep. I just find fondling my genitals to be kind of wierd. I admit that I used to do it but not anymore. It's hard giving up but it's worth it. I feel healthier and generally happier. When I mastubated, I felt very rancorous and it gave me a wierd illness that I didn't tell anyone about. When I went to eat or drink anything, including water, I'd dry-reach or throw up.
Anyways, that's kind of off topic.
Quick question Christian, do you have OCD or anxiety or anything like that? Its like you're either scared someone will find out what you've been doing (and its considered bad) or just the idea of touching 'bits' makes you feel dirty? Do you have any problems touching other people or them touching you (handshakes for example)? PM me if you don't wanna say publicly. :)
If I didn't masturbate I'd be anxious or something along those lines. Uptight or jumpy. I wouldn't call it nervous though. I don't know how old you are jimmy but I need to do it. I'll sit down and do some homework and i'll get hard even though I'm trying to get work done. It wont go away. I ignore it and figure it eventually will, then my thought go to things that make me horny because im throbbing in my pants. At that point, I do it just to get rid of it so i can get back to work. I'm not saying i didn't like it, but I'd rather the need would leave me alone when I'm busy.
You said you don't like touching it. Not sure what you mean. To pee we pretty much have to, so it isn't a like dislike for me it's just something we do so I idk what there is to not like. anyway, most of us like doing it, but in my homework example, I just wanna get my homework done and move on, but it's like the need pesters me and wont go away and the longer i ignore it, the worse it gets. If I ignore it during homework and fall asleep doing homework, I won't set my alarm so I wake up late. So no masturbation that night or day so far. I'm really wired at school all day, as well as horny and more erections. If I'm playing a sport right after school, then it just builds up worse. So I kinda think you got a good thing going on if you don't need to do it. cuz most of us here wouldn't last too long without it and end up having wet dreams which i kinda like, but would rather have a controlled mess instead of a surprise mess.
I'm 19....as I said in the post you quoted lol.
Funny you say that as I do suffer from bad anxiety, but I don't think its due to not masturbating!!
I DO get awkward erections at really innapropriate and embarrasing times although I just sit down/tuck it in the waistband or keep my hand in my pocket till its gone, used to get them a lot at work and college (nervous boners I think) but they'd go eventually.
No I don't like touching it, but I also don't really like touching any parts of my body or anyone elses, bit of an OCD thing I think as if I touch 'it' I have to wash my hands straight after. And you're right, peeing involves touching it, so I sit down most of the time so I dont have to touch it, I have shy bladder so I can't use urinals anyway so while I'm in a cubicle, no-one can see what I'm up to (hopefully!!).
Not sure I got a good thing going though, personally I would love to just be normal!!
Jimmy
jacob_1995
January 6th, 2012, 04:48 PM
Every single boy I know except one masturbates, so while you're definitely in the minority, there's nothing wrong with your choice.
christianteen
January 6th, 2012, 05:26 PM
Quick question Christian, do you have OCD or anxiety or anything like that? Its like you're either scared someone will find out what you've been doing (and its considered bad) or just the idea of touching 'bits' makes you feel dirty? Do you have any problems touching other people or them touching you (handshakes for example)? PM me if you don't wanna say publicly. :)
You're probably going to think I'm an idiot but hear me out from my point of view and I'm sorry for what seems like making all of you my online therapists. My real name's Jamie by the way. I don't like giving it out over the internet very much.
I just think it's me feeling guilty for masturbating and wasting sperm and it all goes back a long way. After all, I try to have very high moral standards and I'm totally clean besides masturbation.
I haven't been diagnosed with any condition such as OCD, Anxiety, depression, nothing.
No, I don't have problems with people touching. I can be hugged, give hugs, receive handshakes, give handshakes, etc.
This all goes back to year five. When I was in year five I went to a new school and everyone hated me. So then we had a school camp the jocks in the grade above me started a rumor that I masturbate with other guys in the cabin and that I'm gay.
The truth is that I'm totally straight and even though I masturbated at the time, I certainly didn't do it with other men. At this time. The vomiting wasn't happening afterwards.
Word got around quickly and soon. People were trying to come into the cabin to see if I was wanking with other guys.
At one point a few days later, I was getting changed after a shower in the cabin and the ring leader of the roumers decided to barge though the door.
He then yelled a malice filled yell, 'Everyone! He's masturbating!'
After that I just exploded and went on an unintelligible rant that involved screaming the words 'GIVE MY SOME ******* PRIVERCY!!!'
After that I was the least popular guy in the whole school and the vomiting after masturbating began happening. Since I had no friends I was forced to read on a bench for a whole half year while people bullied me. Just after half a year, a really popular girl actually decided to sacrifice some of her popularity and get to know me. I don't know if she felt sorry for me or what but she became my first friend. Too bad the jocks in my grade that were collaborating with the older jocks were out in force just to make my life miserable.
They barred her from seeing me and they made a sick joke of 'taking me under their wings.' Making them seem like my friends. I then fell for their curse and told them that I liked that popular girl who was my first friend. They then ditched me straight away and went and told her that I liked her. I was forced to go back to my trusty bench and book.
Then, a few months later, that girl came back and told me that she didn't care that I liked her and that she just wanted to help me. We became good friends and together we were unstoppable. Since she was still very popular she was able to find me a nice group of people and I became friends with them.
Once that happened, people actually started realising that I was a pretty cool guy. Year six came around and I was, believe it or not, popular. Even more so than those buttholes who bullied me.
How this all relates to me not masturbating is that masturbation was the start to my most major problem in life. I was sad and lonely, all because of masturbation. So, stopping was the best thing to do for me.
Notateen4muchlonger
January 6th, 2012, 05:54 PM
Well I think a lot of people masturbate.
I also think that it is easier to type that you masturbate versus telling friends or freely talking about it.
Because of this, it appears that more would than you think.
I also masturbate. haha
jimmyboy92
January 6th, 2012, 06:16 PM
I don't think that makes you an idiot at all Jamie, and I can totally see the reason you chose to stop doing it. :)
I know from personal experience that avoiding a 'trigger' from any problem is usually the easiest thing to do.
Dimentio
January 6th, 2012, 06:18 PM
Like i struggle to keep some urges back so not masturbating! I would feel like my stomach would nearly want to explode and it would jsut be impossible! So well done for you! :D
But i guess you find it easier as you have not gone before ha ha.
jimmyboy92
January 8th, 2012, 06:27 PM
Just wanna bump this up as I cannot believe there's only of two of us on the whole forum that don't do it!?
mondes
January 8th, 2012, 06:47 PM
my little brother said he never masturbate b4 and he is 16 , i don't belive him but still, ya
TELEKINESISpower
January 8th, 2012, 07:02 PM
it mellows me out, helps me sleep, and feels great. i solved anger issues too
Cobalt
January 8th, 2012, 07:10 PM
I'd find it kinda of weird if you didn't masturbate.
spoke
January 8th, 2012, 07:19 PM
christianteen, i'm sorry for what you went through. nobody should be treated that way. the world is so difficult as it is, having a little respect for each other doesn't seem like a lot to ask for. or to give
Rayquaza
January 8th, 2012, 07:51 PM
I do. I think what those people did is awful and should be ridiculed themselves. Shame on them. They probably do aswell.
christcenteredlife
January 8th, 2012, 09:37 PM
i don't.
jordanmichael
January 10th, 2012, 03:33 PM
I definitively do and so do most teenagers, but I am sure that some dont.
prettyprincess209
January 10th, 2012, 04:10 PM
naaa its true lol i do it all the time it amazing and soooo good u should try it it feels soo nice and ull have fun over it :yes:
dragonslayer
January 11th, 2012, 12:06 AM
It's a personal choice I guess. I'd say more guys do than girls but a ton of girls do to. To be honest Ill never quite understand why some don't.:confused:
This
BigG
January 11th, 2012, 08:54 AM
Nope quit when I lost my virginity it's a personal decision though everyone is diffrernt-BigG
Wings3965
January 11th, 2012, 04:36 PM
I do but i never tryed doing it with a girl while she did it, all though id like to
ltodd98
January 11th, 2012, 04:45 PM
It seems like everyone besides me on this site masturbates.
Is this true? Is there another rare person here who doesn't 'pleasure' themselves?
It just seems like it because everyone here does it because they talk about doing it and I've seen practically everyone on the puberty quizzes say that they do it on a regular basis.
you havent masturbated? omg try it. you may think ewww but trust me you wil get hooked for life. it is amazing
Jupiter
January 11th, 2012, 05:16 PM
I don't get how boys don't masterbate...... Would you really rather just like blow ur load in ur sleep n make a huge mess...... Ew.... I respect ur choice ... I just don't get it
This is rather insensitive. It's easy not to do it if you never started. Everyone feels it differently.
you havent masturbated? omg try it. you may think ewww but trust me you wil get hooked for life. it is amazing
I really don't think that he wants to? I think he'd rather not be "hooked for life."
naaa its true lol i do it all the time it amazing and soooo good u should try it it feels soo nice and ull have fun over it :yes:
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