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Silentkink
January 4th, 2012, 10:44 PM
So as some of you may now I have fallen for the girl of my dreams, and we were talking for about 3 hours a night for about a week straight, we found that we like pretty much the same stuff, and have the same attitude toward life in general. My plan was to ask her out before we went on to break, but the chance never presented it to me, and I was left worrying about what I should do for about 3 days.

My best friend came over for a few hours and we were talking about her and he told me that I need to ask her out or I would regret it for the rest of break. So since I had her number, he convinced me that I should tell her how I feel and ask her out via text, lets just say it didn't go so well. She didn't say no to me, but she also didn't say yes, so I thought I still had a chance with her, but for the past few days, I have tried to talk to her, but she will never reply unless I ask for something like our homework.

So my question is what should I do next, I have one of my closet friends who is also friends with her talking with her now about me, and stuff in general, but I want to know what I can do about this. Should I try and explain everything to her, and ask her out in a week or so, while we start talking again, and building trust again. Or should I just move on from her and accept that it didn't work out. I really do not think I can do the latter option, I tried this and for a few days it was working, but once school started again, all my feelings came back, and I was stuck in the same situation I was in before break.

So thanks in advance guys, and if you actually read all of this and answer it, then you guys are awesome. IF not for this website a lot of my problems would go unsolved, so I need help once more, Thanks again guys.

ImCoolBeans
January 5th, 2012, 12:21 AM
If you were talking that much, it seems to me that she does have an interest in you - so I don't think she would just disregard it. Since everything is already out in the open, you should definitely talk to her in person the next chance you get. Don't make it a huge to-do, just tell her that you wish you could have talked to her in person about it rather than texting and see how she feels about that.

Hope it all works out for you.

VirtualTeen9000
January 5th, 2012, 09:53 AM
Had the same problem just i didnt tell so that leads to no-reply. From her closest friends i got to knowing that she and all the girls really respect your honesty and courage if you go right and tell them how you feel in real person ( no facebook,no texts) but in person.I knew that she's interested in me but she didn't know that i am too . So my advice is to tell her how you feel before she ''friendzones'' you because after that , when she'll se you like a friend it'll be pretty tough for her to imagine the both of you together or something.Think one more time and do what you think is right. Good luck :)