My Girlfriend's Gynecological Problems

[Just...Will]

My girlfriend, named Kaylie, is deahtly afraid of going to the gyecologist. Thing is, she's exhibiting most of the symptoms of cervical cancer, and for the past several months I've been trying to convince her to go and get checked out at a teen clinic without her parents knowing, but she's still scared. She gets to the point of hysterics when the topic is brought up, and has even drawn doodles of a small, scared girl tied down on a table naked while various famous horror figures (Scream, Frankenstein, our choir teacher, etc.) all brandishing sharp and sinister-looking instruments. I'm really concerned for her, so here's my plea:

Those of you who have been to the gynecologist, could you please tell her what to expect? She said that one of the reasons she's so afraid is that she's never heard of any good stories come from it, so if, if you've had something good come from a gynecological exam, please post it. Also, please tell her what to expect during the exam; what instruments the gynecologist will use, how it feels, etc. Thanks a lot, guys, and keep in mind that you may be saving a girl's life.

Information about Kaylie:
Age: 14
Symptoms: Vaginal pain, feces and urine leaking from the vagina, oddly-colored vaginal discharge, severe loss of apetite, vomiting, and single swollen leg.

Thanks a lot!

[Whisper]

okay she needs to go to get checked out
thats obivous

She needs to tell her parents
or atleast her mum

if shes insanly adament about not telling anyone
and shes scared to go by herself
then you go with her
convience her that your her bf
you love her more than anything
and you wont let anything bad happen to her

I still STRONGLY suggest her parents being informed
Cancer is no joke
i've watched as well over half my extended family has been takin by it
my mum had cervical cancer
shes the only one in my fam thats been able to beat cancer so far
and that was because she went early

[Giga Smashes]

Getting that checked out is a given, I know I'm not a girl and I don't understand the whole concept of going to the gyno, but THOSE symptoms are something that you would want checked out.

[Glasgow]

feces coming out of the vagina? That doesnt make much sense, and neither does her not going to a doctor or a gyno. She needs to go now

[Hyper]

okay she needs to go to get checked out
thats obivous

She needs to tell her parents
or atleast her mum

if shes insanly adament about not telling anyone
and shes scared to go by herself
then you go with her
convience her that your her bf
you love her more than anything
and you wont let anything bad happen to her

I still STRONGLY suggest her parents being informed
Cancer is no joke
i've watched as well over half my extended family has been takin by it
my mum had cervical cancer
shes the only one in my fam thats been able to beat cancer so far
and that was because she went early


Yeah, cancer runs in my family too :(, and yes make her go with you damn it

[Just...Will]

Guys, thanks, but that's not what I'm asking. I know she has to go in, and I've been trying to convicne her to for the better part of the last year. I'm asking for personal experiences to help ease the idea that gynecologists are monstrous pedos. Thanks.

[Hyper]

Guys, thanks, but that's not what I'm asking. I know she has to go in, and I've been trying to convicne her to for the better part of the last year. I'm asking for personal experiences to help ease the idea that gynecologists are monstrous pedos. Thanks.


Ok I just happen to know, it may be a bit annoying and maybe hurt, but it will be alot better then getting treated for something like that way too late..

[Whisper]

who cares if some are
its as simple as that
ya gotta do what ya gotta do

After my mums scar
she made me and katie get checked over
that included a cathader
1 male doc like 5 female nurses me stark naked with a plastic tube up my penis

lifes a bitch
sometimes you just gotta deal

this is serious
she HAS to go
its as simple as that
and if shes had problems like that for over a year and you've known
then you should have done something by now

[Glasgow]

It sounds like shes just a typical girl afraid of getting raped by "strangers".

These are professionals and im sure they act very proffesional. Nothing to be afraid of, they know what they are doing.