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bena3217
January 3rd, 2012, 11:26 AM
these last few days ive just lost my lust for life...nothing is fun anymore...i would always love going to the gym but now i dont want to anymore...i love sports and i just want none of it anymore...i feel like i dont want to do these things anymore...nothing gets me excited anymore...everytime i go out i scared...i just lost that urge to talk to people...i lock myself into my room for hours doing nothing...ive just lost the feeling that i want to do the things i love...i dont see a reason for living anymore...but i dont want my life to end...i hardly talk to people anymore...i dont practise anymore...i just lost the lust for everything...i was always horny and m-mated everyday...i just dont want to anymore...almost a week now...im depressed all the time...i just want to be alone the whole time...i sit in my room the whole day...my phone is off...i have so many things i can do...i just lost the excitement and urge to do all these things...i seriously dont know what to do anymore...my dad is getting mad at me for locking myself up but i dont want to be near anybody...i feal horrible and i want the feeling to stop...:(

ive even lost the lust to help people...

Texas warrior
January 25th, 2012, 02:06 AM
you need two things

love. someone to love, if you have a gf hang out with her. Or get a girl friend if you do not have one.

hate. I lost my only two friends in two months, hate stopped me from getting depressed.
hate can motivate you , just do not let it consume you , let the love consume you!

Moxie
January 25th, 2012, 02:17 AM
Find a goal, and devote yourself entirely to it. Do you want to go to an Ivy League school? Or, perhaps, become a musical maestro? Make it happen. Motivation is fuel.

As for the whole "not talking to people" thing... well, this is just my opinion, and is pretty different than many others' opinions, but I'd just like to put it out there. Social interaction isn't necessary. If you don't relate to people, you don't relate to people. If you feel no desire to converse with someone, don't. I can honestly say that I don't have any friends, but that there are many people who consider themselves my friends. I don't feel like building relationships with friends (it seems pointless), so I don't. If you don't feel talking to people, you don't have to.

When it comes to sexual frustration, if you don't want to relieve it with someone else, do it yourself. I don't think that I need to... er... elaborate any further on that part.