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Scotland
January 2nd, 2012, 11:48 PM
Im posting this here because i have nowhere else to write it, and there's a limit to who in my close friends i can tell.
My girlfriend last night told me she was pregnant, only a few weeks gone at most... but then today... she had a miscarriage, the doctor told her it didn't even have enough features to be classed as a baby... but, that was my baby, my little innocent baby i .... i feel so empty.... i don't know what to do anymore
antiabort
January 3rd, 2012, 12:05 AM
My condolences, I am sorry for your loss.
Scotland
January 3rd, 2012, 12:07 AM
Thank you :/
User Deleted
January 3rd, 2012, 12:08 AM
I'm sorry, though things happen in life that we have to get over. If you read my sig, it tells that you have to move forward from the bad of the past. So do just that. Move forward in his memory.
Scotland
January 3rd, 2012, 12:09 AM
I'm sorry, though things happen in life that we have to get over. If you read my sig, it tells that you have to move forward from the bad of the past. So do just that. Move forward in his memory.
Thank you so much, i love your sig :)
itsthat0n3kid
January 3rd, 2012, 01:44 AM
live a good life in his honor.
have a child planned in the future and name him/her after the one lost in such a horrible way.
Riotboy
January 3rd, 2012, 07:32 AM
Bro its your son right, Most women have a miss carage in live and Teens have a higher chance beacuse of being under devoped take my oppinion You dont want a kid...YET
But i am sorry for your loss your own little child, May you live and love how he would want you to live and love as a father.
Please do not double post, use the edit button- Fiction
Clawhammer
January 3rd, 2012, 10:02 AM
Sorry for your loss, lad. My advice in the immediate situation is help your girlfriend out as well. My older sister had a miscarriage on the birthday of her first child a while back, so I understand that it's not easy for anybody. You'll just have to keep going, I'm afraid.
Fiction
January 3rd, 2012, 10:14 AM
I really am so sorry for you loss :( It must be such a horrible thing to go through, I know it's something that would kill me.
All I can say is that the pain will fade. You will start to feel better again. Discuss things with your girlfriend. You are the most valuable thing to each other in getting over this.
Dimitri
January 3rd, 2012, 10:15 AM
I am truly sorry for you loss, I cannot begin to fathom how much this shall impact you and your girlfriend but live through him, fight hard for what could have been....
Love.Hate
January 3rd, 2012, 11:11 AM
I have miscarried before, and its not pleasant.. however the pain does go, i promise you. things get better, just give them time <3
Here if you need to talk
Scotland
January 3rd, 2012, 04:05 PM
After staying up the whole night then meeting her at 9am this morning and spending all of today with her, i think we have both come to terms with whats happened, Things can only get better from here on. Perhaps some random outbursts of emotion over the next while but nothing that cant be handled,
Thank you all for your kind words and support, it means a lot
-TheLonelyScot
Jupiter
January 3rd, 2012, 04:46 PM
Man, that really sucks. You know where to reach me, if you need to. I'm so sorry.
Fiction
January 3rd, 2012, 04:51 PM
After staying up the whole night then meeting her at 9am this morning and spending all of today with her, i think we have both come to terms with whats happened, Things can only get better from here on. Perhaps some random outbursts of emotion over the next while but nothing that cant be handled,
Thank you all for your kind words and support, it means a lot
-TheLonelyScot
I'm really glad to see that you're supporting each other. You can use this to make your relationship stronger :)
antondrexler22
January 3rd, 2012, 05:07 PM
My Condolences
Fourth Dimension
January 3rd, 2012, 05:33 PM
i know how you feel when it comes to this its not fun and its not easy so i give you my condolences and i hope things get better soon
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