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Dimentio
January 2nd, 2012, 08:47 PM
Well lately all of my friends have just started dropping on me one by one and some of them slower and others but their the ones which hurt the most, And 5 of my online friends got together to make a video saying goodbye, That video made me cry anyway but then i realized it was for me and i just feel like i have no insides.
I wish they were joking but the weren't, But i am just scared now as all my past freinds have used me and left me or just left me, Hence the title 'Human Hotel', Because that is what it feels like, Friends stay with me for a few months to 3 years (Longest friendship i have had yet), And go but pretened i am the best thing in the world while their with me and when their gone that is when they show their true colours, Also like some hotel guests.
I have got one friend now who does not even text me or see me outside school but convieniently is the one i love, And i got god knows how many online friends, But i do not know who i can trust no more.
Has any body got any help to show me who is a good friend and who would be a bad one?

Manga
January 2nd, 2012, 09:08 PM
I'm confused, the first paragraph made almost no sense to me.

Dimentio
January 3rd, 2012, 10:31 AM
Like my friends just have been leaving me, To the point of none now except internet ones, But ugh i cannot be asked for fakes, They are just pathetic, I got my friends who i know are real friends online so i will keep with them :)

ImCoolBeans
January 6th, 2012, 04:14 PM
Friends come and go, but if you pick the right ones they'll stick by your side. I have lost friends over stupid things, I've been blamed for things I didn't do - which has resulted in friends turning their backs on you, and I've been hurt and ditched for no reason at all. It sucks, but the best thing that I can tell you is that it really doesn't last forever. I found new friends fairly quickly and I'm glad that everything happened the way it did. Talk to people who have similar interests and who you can relate to in ways. Good luck with all.

Biscuithead13
January 18th, 2012, 08:23 PM
I have been there multiple times. I've always had problems keeping my friends and I really only have two friends who I have known for a long time. The rest have been a revolving door my entire life. I have now found new friends who seem like people who I can be friends with for a long time, but no matter what, know that once you are an adult you will have so many more opportunities to make lifelong friends. :)

Hugger
January 26th, 2012, 09:56 AM
I know how you feel. Just being used for your brains is terrible. I had a fake friendship. The guy only used me to help him with his English assignments and stuff! -_- anyway, I ditched him, started being a jerk to him to get him to apologize(messed up, I know. XD) and now I'm being nice to him. Then again, I started being nice to him 3 days before the end of English class(exams are on now). Lol.c

Smeagol
January 26th, 2012, 04:16 PM
People have used me like that too. Now my only friends who I talk to every day are here on VT. :) we all have each other

Jupiter
January 27th, 2012, 11:38 PM
Well buddy, I'm very sorry to hear this, and I have a lyric quote that helped me out a bit when this happened to me.

"Friends come for a reason. Some for a lifetime, some just a season."