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TeddyBearRock
January 2nd, 2012, 05:13 PM
The other day i was round my m8s house. Im not going to tell you the whole story, but he has a girlfriend but i saw him kissing a boy.

:confused: what should i do, should i tell him i know or leave it :confused:

Gandalf
January 2nd, 2012, 05:56 PM
Tell him what you've seen, then let him explain his side of the story.
Then post back, if you need any further advice with this.

Jose
January 2nd, 2012, 07:17 PM
Tell him what u raw let him explain if he says he likes guy too well its up to u to accept him or not im bi none im buds care

Fourth Dimension
January 2nd, 2012, 07:27 PM
i would be like umm i was around ur place the other day and this is what i saw and let him tell you what was going on

jtk339
January 2nd, 2012, 07:27 PM
yeh speek to him about it and support him because u dont know if hes struggling with his feelings towards males/females

Also it could just be a family friend or cousin that are very close and have always been like that towards eachother

Trinity_15
January 3rd, 2012, 11:59 AM
tell him you saw it and blackmail him...

im just kidding, leave it alone, it may ruin many friendships if you act on it

Salvi
January 3rd, 2012, 05:38 PM
tell him what you saw and talk it out with him seems like the best thing to do

canadaski
January 3rd, 2012, 08:04 PM
As others have said, tell him that you saw him kissing a guy. Let him know that you accept him and you will remain friends no matter what. Also let him know that you'll keep his secret as long as he wants it kept secret. Make sure he knows that you are there to talk to about anything.

It's good that this happened. It gives you the opportunity to establish a deeper level of trust with your friend.

Spence97
January 3rd, 2012, 11:03 PM
dont make it too awkward just tell him you saw it happen, but your fine with it

Gordo
January 4th, 2012, 12:26 AM
don't make it awkward and say nothing

MaliciousBunface
January 4th, 2012, 03:07 AM
Tell her that you saw them, but then tell her not to over react and calmly talk to him about it. Or be a control freak and black mail your friend >: D Kidding, don't do that.

Try and talk to at least one of them about what happened. Cause it isn't really fair on the girl.

Away
January 4th, 2012, 03:07 AM
Gently say , "I know what you did .."
Just talk things out , and make sure that he doesn't keep it bottled up.
Then just give a bro-fist to your mate.

Away
January 4th, 2012, 03:21 AM
Just be honest, talk to him.
Also throw in that your not mad , but just concerned.
And its not fair on the Girl indeed. I agree with Lumpy ^

colinbirddaword
January 9th, 2012, 12:21 AM
Honestly I think it'd be best to leave it be unless it becomes a big problem. Something like that could easily ruin your friendship. I mean I guess to really make an accurate suggestion id have to know what the circumstances were and all that. But yeah, leave it.

Dmtuba
January 9th, 2012, 09:58 PM
I would leave it, or if your into him, see if he feels the same

jegoss02
December 14th, 2012, 03:37 AM
Talk with him. Ask what's going on. Be a friend though.

ReginaGeorge
December 14th, 2012, 03:47 AM
I don't think you should tell them. If it were another girl, I would be different, and maybe not so shocked. If you confront him about it, you could potentially be outing him which the absolute worst thing you can do, and also interfering in his relationship with his girlfriend. It's your job to be there for him as a friend, not tell him wrong from right, like his mother.

Wait for him to come to you.

StoppingTime
December 14th, 2012, 03:44 PM
Please don't bump threads over two months old. :locked: