Taught my cousin how to wank

[michael.95]

To start off I'm 16 years old and my cousin just turned 12 a few months ago, he was visiting from down south. I showed him porn to start off with, at first he found it funny and said that's disgusting etc, so I tried to teach him a little bit by googling how to masturbate and so on, so forth, eventually he started enjoying watching the videos, he wanted to watch a bit of everything, gay, normal etc.

He has never played with himself in that area so I decided to show him what to do in order to ejaculate, so I got hard and got my penis out, he was more than comfortable watching me, heck I think he even enjoyed it, I wanked and jizzed and he was just like cool, should I try that now but I told him no, do it in private when you have time, I was only showing him what to do.

He popped up to me on facebook today and said he done it, it was the best feeling ever and stuff came out of his penis and he called me "the best cousin".

The main reason I showed him porn and taught him how to wank was so when and if his friends ask him about it he knows and won't get embarrassed about not knowing.

So the point of this post was to say, was it a good thing I taught him how to do it or was it a bad thing because he is only 12...

Opinions please?

[Skumar824]

i think that was a great thing that you did for him

[senior.2013]

If he was OK and willing, yes. If you just pushed it on him, it is bad.

[vtadam]

Probably was the right thing to do.
He seemed to like it anyway.

[teenageapplelover]

I think you just unnecessarily corrupted your cousin. Showing him how to masturbate is fine, to an extent, but starting him on pornography is just wrong. Imagine how much trouble you'll be in when he gets caught and he tells his parents you taught him how to do it. I'm sorry, but I have to be honest with you.

[Chris95]

That was horrible, what's wrong with you? Why would the thought of "showing him" even enter your mind?

[superstarB]

ya it was good for you saves him on the embarrassed feeling later you were also showing something common to life so you are a good cousin

[teenageapplelover]

I really don't think that the porn was warranted, that's someone else's kid. Plus he's only 12... the idea of exposing a 12 year old to videos of people fucking isn't right to me.
EXACTLY. it's just sick.

That was horrible, what's wrong with you? Why would the thought of "showing him" even enter your mind?
Okay, calm down. Maybe he had a good reason, like the op was teased about not knowing what masturbation was so he showed it to his cousin so he didn't have to experience that. But whatever the reason...he shouldn't have shown the porn.

[districtnowhere]

i think that since he is 12 he was bound to find out what porn is and wanking eventually so i think you did him a favour by helping him learn a new and fun thing to do with his little friend.

[Antagonist]

How is that sick? If I was his cousin I would have been greatful. It would have been sick if they did anything sex related to each other, but they didnt.

All in all, you did a nice thing for your cousin and I respect that.

[NomSan]

I don't think family members should do anything sexual together, even if you didn't touch each others. He would of found out on his own eventually anyways, and I don't think porn is good for a 12 year olds mind.

[teenageapplelover]

How is that sick? If I was his cousin I would have been greatful. It would have been sick if they did anything sex related to each other, but they didnt.

All in all, you did a nice thing for your cousin and I respect that.
BECAUSE HE'S TWELVE. there's a chance he can't even ejaculate. He might not even have started puberty. It's just not the ops place to show him pornography. Let him corrupt himself.

[Antagonist]

Corrupt? How. And I started watching porn and masturbating when I was 11. And how did I learn? Friends, and porn. No big deal.

[csshively]

I do not believe the pornography was warranted in any way, shape, or form. That was just utterly wrong for you to do that. You also shouldn't have shown him how to masturbate, that was completely inappropriate. If he had already known how, that would have been fine for you to do it together, but showing him just wasn't right. He would have figured it out on his own eventually or he wouldn't have, but it shouldn't have been up to you to decide.

[Irishperson15]

Whether it's right or wrong isn't the point. It's not his kid, he doesn't have the authority to expose him to porn without consent of his parents.

And I just don't find this normal at all. If my cousin came up to me and asked what masturbating was, I wouldn't be like "oh, let me whip out my dick and show you hardcore videos of people fucking"

I doubt that his parents would give him consent to watch porn but still i agree it wasnt up to u to decide that the time was right for him to find out. He should hav found out himself probably in watevr way. It wuld nvr happen but for watevr reason if this DID happen to me with one of my cousins, then to be honest i wuld not hav even considered doing what u did

[xDLOL]

You made his life a lot better lol

[Lego]

Yeah past is past don't worry about it. I'd find doing it in front o my cousin a little strange but hey if you didn't force him and he was ok with it good man. And especially telling him to do it in private and not right there in front of you was good as well. No harm done in my opinion.

[SilverFox]

I think you did a good thing, although he would have found out sooner or later by himself, you still did a something good. He might even feel confident asking you questions about puberty now, which hardly can be a bad thing.

[antondrexler22]

you shouldnt have shown him the porn you should of shown him how 2 do ur self

[Fourth Dimension]

well i think showing him porn was kinda wrong since hes 12 but the other part of it i dont see it being such a huge deal as long as he was comfortable with it

[Ledzeprocks]

It's fine that you did that...your cousins lucky lol. It's something we all do

[michael.95]

Right I agree with all of you on the porn thing, I wasn't thinking straight but that's what everyone wanks to so I'm sure he would have come across it sooner or later.

The reason I taught him was because he mentioned that he started growing hairs down there so I thought now would be the time to educate him on it, he also told me he was getting sex ed in school so I guess it was a matter of time.

[teenageapplelover]

Whether it's right or wrong isn't the point. It's not his kid, he doesn't have the authority to expose him to porn without consent of his parents.

And I just don't find this normal at all. If my cousin came up to me and asked what masturbating was, I wouldn't be like "oh, let me whip out my dick and show you hardcore videos of people fucking"

I do not believe the pornography was warranted in any way, shape, or form. That was just utterly wrong for you to do that. You also shouldn't have shown him how to masturbate, that was completely inappropriate. If he had already known how, that would have been fine for you to do it together, but showing him just wasn't right. He would have figured it out on his own eventually or he wouldn't have, but it shouldn't have been up to you to decide.

These two are right. Completely correct. I couldn't say it any better.

[NickUK]

its ok as my cuz taught me to so noting wrong with it

[applegeek897]

its good that you did but i think that he would have found out any way.

[qmann8]

the situation turned out perfect so it was great for you :)

[CarolinaDude]

Well, what's done is done. I'm pretty sure he would've found out everything on his own eventually, though. Your help wasn't necessarily needed, but I suppose your cousin wasn't necessarily harmed by it, either.

Just make sure he doesn't go around telling everybody, "Hey, my cousin taught me how to do this thing!" At 12, I'm not too sure if the naïveté of early childhood has left him.

If I were you, I'd seek him out as soon as possible and reenforce the seriousness of privacy. That's to save you, and him, from potential embarrassment (or worse).

[Thunduhbuhlt]

considering my cousin taught me when i was 12 (irony) I don't see a problem, but that's just me, the porn thing...idk, not that great.

[thomasgj]

BECAUSE HE'S TWELVE. there's a chance he can't even ejaculate. He might not even have started puberty. It's just not the ops place to show him pornography. Let him corrupt himself.

"corrupt"? what is "corrupted" about sexuality? please gtfo if you think sex/masturbation is corrupted.

[Benbomber]

Ya thats good i would have been so happy to have a cousin like you when i learnt because then i would know i have someone i can talk to about whatever.

[IamJimmy1992]

I think you handled the situation well, very glad to read that you told him to do it in a private place, otherwise i would have slammed you for it. But well done, don't think there is anything wrong with your actions, he was inevitably going to find out sometime, you just gave him a head start.

[teenageapplelover]

The whole "he would've ended up watching porn anyway" argument is like raping a virgin and saying that he/she would eventually have sex anyway.
perfect analogy.

"corrupt"? what is "corrupted" about sexuality? please gtfo if you think sex/masturbation is corrupted.
I didn't say that. I said showing him pornography was, in essence, corrupting him. Showing him how to masturbate was a little odd, imo, but not (inherently) corrupt. Showing him pornography was corrupting him (please see the post i just quoted).

[Danny-]

I think you just unnecessarily corrupted your cousin. Showing him how to masturbate is fine, to an extent, but starting him on pornography is just wrong. Imagine how much trouble you'll be in when he gets caught and he tells his parents you taught him how to do it. I'm sorry, but I have to be honest with you.

I have to completely disagree with this user here. I think it's perfectly fine, especially since you told him to do it in private. You didn't take advantage, which is good.

[wildmanjesse]

Although I am 15 almost 16 I watch porn even though I am trying to quit ( not working to well) I started about thatr age and regret it so unless he was willing I tthink it was bad to show him porn at a young age but wanking off eveyone does it so no biggy

[Trinity_15]

i dont see anything wrong with it, for a matter of fact i actually think you were kind to tell him about it. and on top of this you and him both now have someone to talk about private stuff. :)

[michael.95]

He was, but what's up with the porn being involved? You can tell him how to masturbate but it's a bit much to show your cousin porn and start jacking off to it in front of him...

I showed him the porn because he was on my computer and it was in the recently opened when you click on a new tab and he asked what it was so I showed him. I asked if he masturbated and he didn't know how to and I tried to show videos of them doing it but he still wasn't getting it so I asked if he wanted me to show him and he said ok. I didn't force anything upon him, I'm not like that.

[boosterboy]

I think the masturbation part is fine as he is gonna do it anyway but I think the porn thing is kinda ok as he's gonna find it out anyway but as long you told.him that it is all a private thing

[Jjac]

i thnk its fine to tell him. He is going to learn one way or the other so why not from a close cousin or family member he trusts. It would have been ocward if he thought you were weird and never talked to you again cause you showed him your penis

[iLove Justin Bieber]

It sounds cool but I think its just wrong, like someone said, you've corrupted him to tell the truth

[Gmonay]

I think it's great what you did I did the smae thing with my little brother- Gmonay

[Soccer4life99]

if my cousin or someone i know good like my friend taught me how to wank and taught me things about sex and girls and porn then maybe in year 5 i wouldnt got teased because i didnt know what an erection was or what a blowjob is, you did a good thing i wish i had a cousin like you

[ImCoolBeans]

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