Help? If its possible.

[White]

So I have been dating this girl for about 2 and a half months. We don't really see each other though. So recently I feel like I have in some way been cheating. Other girls always tempt me and stuff and sometimes i fall into it and I don't want to. These girls send me pictures of them and always try to flirt and I always flirt back. I hate myself for doing it!!! I really love this girl:wub:. I always thought people who could be in love are stupid but now, I am in love and I feel like i'm cheating, but i feel like I am not cheating!! So what I am asking is what is going to far with another girl and how can I stop myself from doing these things. Thanks for the help.

[anonymous53]

What you can do is turn around, tell them you're taken and ask them to stop.

[jtk339]

^^^ i agree if you love this girl and wont to stay with her then you need to focus on her and its alright to have other friends that are girls at the same time and u maybe close friends but dont get to close

[screamtobeheard]

It's gonna be hard, but you need to politely but firmly let them know you're taken and that you're off limits. You don't want to be tempted, and if she isn't enough, even when she's not around, then you're not in love. "Too far" is anything you wouldn't do with a boy (for the record, I checked on your profile to make sure you were straight).

[ImCoolBeans]

If it makes you feel guilty, simply tell them that you have a girlfriend and that you can't talk to them like this. I'm glad that you feel this rather than you feeling as if its okay to go off and talk to other girls.

As for what is "too far" - I would definitely say stop flirting with them. Don't play along with it, or anything of that sort. Just tell them that you have a girlfriend and you are faithful to her.

[antondrexler22]

I would tell them im taken because i had the same thing happen when i was a freshman last year. i told them i am taken so go pester someone else

[rockNroll]

Best thing to do if you feel bad about it is talk to your gf about it

[Gordo]

What you can do is turn around, tell them you're taken and ask them to stop.

Bingo!

[Anyone51]

Just tell them they don't look half as pretty as her