My Question.

[SilverFox]

So, I'm kind of stuck on a question.. If I don't have any sexually attraction to girls, never checks them out or anything like that, and sometimes I even have a very difficult time seeing myself being with a girl.. But I do have some of those feelings for boys.. But again there, I couldn't see myself with one in the long run. So, do anyone have any idea to why my feelings and such are so mixed. :s Thanks in advance...

[KillerKing]

I've been there! When i was like 14, i found i was looking at guys more, infact, 90% of the time those sort of thoughts were directed towards guys! I didn't start to think about girls in anyway until just before I turned 17. Your feelings right now are just natural and you just have to go with them for now. Just give it some time and you'll realise that your either gay, bi, or even straight.

[LuckyLuke]

I didn't have feelings nearly as strong as that but feelings of that nature were certainly present at some point in my life. It wasn't until I was around 16/17 on some random day that I started looking A LOT more towards women and really, really turning my head away from guys. I was never "Gay", at no point could I have seen myself with, dating, or even going all that far sexually (although I never did anything with a guy and don't want to) with a guy, but prior to that moment I found myself checking out guys much more than girls and feeling more sexually charged towards them.

But after that random day my feelings for women gradually, quite rapidly actually, increased. It's rare a time that I'll check a guy out now and I'm totally not interested in anything sexually. It's strange really and, at first, I thought it was maybe a phase. We've all had those. But it's been at least a year and I feel the same.

The point is, you WILL find what you want and how you want it down the line. Go with what you like, have a little fun, and don't force yourself into something you're not like jamming a piece of a puzzle into the wrong spot.

Your feelings will become unmixed sooner or later but there's nothing we can directly do. We are here for support and to help you figure things out.

Good luck and best wishes.

[SilverFox]

Thanks both of you for the answers. I'll just have to wait and see. But I believe the problem will persist as it is this feeling that keeps growing, and it has done so for a long time. But I'll just let time do its thing.