I'm kinda confused

[laxer720_battle]

So um, this is my 1st time doin this so here goes nothin.
Ummmm, I don't really know what I am. I think I'm bi. I've had crushes on guys. But since I've started to get these feelings for girls, I've been thinking, & realizing that I have kinda had crushes on girls b4. But I also had cruses on guys. I'm just really confused right now, cause I do like this guy;) But there's also this girl;) (actually a few), anyway, she's really pretty, and nice, and funny, and cool, and everything that someone should be. But I can't tell if I just wanna be like really close friends with her or if I wanna actually be with her:what:

[CoolGuyXD]

Well it sounds like you are just in a fase. If you have emotion feelings for this girl then that means you are bi. If you just want to "fool around" with her then your straight.

[kenoloor]

Well it sounds like you are just in a fase. If you have emotion feelings for this girl then that means you are bi. If you just want to "fool around" with her then your straight.

Take that post with a ludicrously massive grain of salt. I would advise that you disregard it, but I'd probably get chastised for invalidating others' ideas. Oh well.
You are not necessarily in a phase.
Emotional attraction is often a good hint, however the "real" defining aspect of sexual orientation is sexual attraction, granted an enduring sexual attraction.

What this comes down to is a label. And labeling sexual orientations is entirely unnecessary. You like who you like; no more, no less.
Sexuality, just like every other aspect of our identities, is constantly evolving. Just go with the flow. Go with how you feel now. Fuck labels.

[laxer720_battle]

I do have feelings for her. The thing is, I wanna tell her, but I don't know if she's straight or questioning. Also she's not only one of my friends, but she's also a team mate. So I don't want anything to be weird. I just don't even know how to bring it up jokingly.:what:

[laxer720_battle]

Ok. & I think I am sexually attracted to her. I

[laxer720_battle]

Don't know how to bring up the subject of possibly liking her. Cause she's not only a friend shes a team mate. So I don't want it to be weird if she doesn't feel the same way. I don't know what to do!!

[Darkness.]

Sexual orientation has to do with sexual attraction. I f you wanted to have sex with only girls then you would be straight. If you wanted to have sex with both than your bi. If you only wanted sex with guys than you would be gay.

But you don't have to label yourself.