Maybe I'm just paranoid? :/

[amscramhick]

I haven't seen my boyfriend at all over Christmas break, which is almost over. Which is whatever. Yeah I miss him, but I wouldn't mind so much. Except that it feels like he doesn't want to talk to me r see me or anything. And I don't know if I'm just being paranoid? Because I texted him on Christmas, and we talked for a little bit. Then the day after Christmas, I texted him, he replied hours later and it didn't even feel like he wanted to talk to me. A couple days later he texted me to ask if I was going to a party a friend of both of us was hosting. We talked for a little bit until he stopped replying. Haven't spoken since Wednesday. I've basically given up figuring if he WANTS to talk or get together, he can contact me first. Because I feel like I'm trying to hard. But I'm wondering if maybe this is the wrong approach? I'm not sure what's going on with him.. And I keep getting this paranoid feeling that he's going to break up with me, even though in the past we've had absolutely no problems. Help? :/

[kenoloor]

Ask him. Bring up the idea that relationships are two-way streets, and it feels like you're putting more effort into it than he is. Communication is always key in relationships.

[mummyK]

First off all, it is a little weird. Im not saying this to worry your or anything but this has happened to me before and it turns out he just wasnt that into the relationship anymore and just didnt have the balls to tell me. Ask him. See if hes still in to it and if he is then remind him it is a two way street, you both need to try to make it work. Good luck :)

[Tamia]

Ask him. Bring up the idea that relationships are two-way streets, and it feels like you're putting more effort into it than he is. Communication is always key in relationships.

I agree. Tell him how you feel, that's what I do.

[antondrexler22]

Right now im basicly in the same boat. my girlfriend was kissing the quarterback of our highschoool football team and i havent gotten any txt mssgs from her except a friend of mine is trying to find if she's going to break up wth me

[amscramhick]

Thank you everyone, but I think we're all good :) We talked yesterday. I didn't bring it up but he proved to me that he actually wanted to talk to me. Every time the conversation got slow he'd say something else to keep it going as long as possible (which is what I usually do). I was actually the one who stopped replying this time. But thank you all.