Gummi
December 31st, 2011, 12:50 AM
So the other day I asked my girlfriend (over text) if she masturbated. Her response was not what I was hoping for.
I would have been fine if she just said no she hasn't yet, but thats not what she said. She said no and I asked her why and she said it was for people with no lives, and its gross and wierd, and she said that she knows that none of her friends do it (I pretty much know that at least one of her friends do). She also said she will never do it no matter what. I kept telling her that was fine, but shes probably going to eventually do it. She kept saying no she will never do that, its gross and wierd. I finally told her whatever she thinks or does/doesn't do is fine.
I never told her I masturbate, and she didn't ask because I think she knew I did because I was telling her facts about it like most teens do.
I thought I would be fine with this, but for some reason its kinda bothering me. I think its that she thinks its bad, and I don't want her to think its bad or wierd or gross. I don't care that she doesn't do it, its just how she looks at it.
Why am I not fine with this? and why do you think shes acting this way towards it?
She did just turn 13 a couple months ago, and she doesn't konw that pretty much all guys masturbate, so maybe shes just not at that stage yet?
I would have been fine if she just said no she hasn't yet, but thats not what she said. She said no and I asked her why and she said it was for people with no lives, and its gross and wierd, and she said that she knows that none of her friends do it (I pretty much know that at least one of her friends do). She also said she will never do it no matter what. I kept telling her that was fine, but shes probably going to eventually do it. She kept saying no she will never do that, its gross and wierd. I finally told her whatever she thinks or does/doesn't do is fine.
I never told her I masturbate, and she didn't ask because I think she knew I did because I was telling her facts about it like most teens do.
I thought I would be fine with this, but for some reason its kinda bothering me. I think its that she thinks its bad, and I don't want her to think its bad or wierd or gross. I don't care that she doesn't do it, its just how she looks at it.
Why am I not fine with this? and why do you think shes acting this way towards it?
She did just turn 13 a couple months ago, and she doesn't konw that pretty much all guys masturbate, so maybe shes just not at that stage yet?