Friend ?

[ElMonstruo]

Alright so I have this friend who is always masturbating under his bed blankets when we have a sleepover. I could suggest that he just do it in the open but he always has a guilty expression on his face that tell me that he really doesn't want me to know except that it is really obvious(heavy breathing, tell-tale movements, facial expression etc.) What should I do next time?

[wattado]

well i would talk with him its better then him feeling guilty and you for having to pretend it not happening

[Bard95]

Personally, id ask to join :P haha but jokingly jut tell him you know haha

[Fruity Drink]

I'd assume that if he's comfortable to masturbate in the same Room as you, you could just join him.... Or even try something "new"! ;)

[Fruit_Tart.]

First I'd ask him what kind of things he does when he's alone and at his house or just any random questions, then I'd tell him that I masturbate before I go to sleep sometimes, as if it weren't such a big deal. If he opens up to that and says he does too, then I'd tell him that I noticed he masturbated at the sleepovers and that I found it okay if he did that in the open.

Be as friendly as possible and try not to get him all weirded out. :) Hahaha. I'm sure you'll do fine. :3 Best of luck to you. :D

[thomasgj]

uh... maybe like ask him to join you in jacking off? maybe he'd feel more comfortable that way

[lildanny]

Instead of asking just start doing it yourself and make it really obvious. he'll notice and probably speak up

[HollisterrBboyy]

If I was in this situation, and as you said it happens at sleepoverSSS which implys that it has happened more than once, I would maybe start like moaning quietly or kind of play with yourself but not too much so you don't get completely hard, and of he asks if you're jacking off, just play it off as you're simply sleeping. Haha. But if he says prove that you aren't, I would be like I'm soft dude but I bet you aren't ;) and poke a little fun, and he'll probably say no I'm soft! Like over and over again because getting a boner with a dude is considered gay. Then you can just say something like well I'll be the BIGGER man and prove it! Then whip it out and make sure it's soft.
I did this and it worked for me. He ended up becoming more comfortable and if either of us at sleepovers needed to jack off before bed, we were totally chill. Best of luck!

[TheMightyBruce]

hmm..starting to agree with everyone one else's posts

[bryce9]

You should just ask him

[Spence97]

i would ask him if he needs a hand, lol just talk about it to him if u dont like it

[Short Circuit]

Just ask him if he minds if you have one too!

[spoke]

you can just let him know that you masturbate too and it's perfectly normal to do it.

[CoolStoryBro 15]

If he is comfortable enough to do it in the same room as you then ya you should talk to him about it by joking around about it then saying you j/o too and your cool with it. And if he didn't even go to the bathroom to be more private then maybe he wants you to know so you can talk to HIM about it

[Danny-]

Say something like, 'Bro I know you're jacking off just do it in the open it isn't a big deal, see?' (Pull out yours and start jacking off)

[Benbomber]

I have had this problem too. I just asked him about it and he kinda denied it but then he said he was and i told him that it is okay if he does it in the open and he said ok and then i asked if he was fine if i did it and he was fine with that. Now at sleepovers when were ready to go to bed we turn off the lights and within 30 seconds we both begin masturbating out lound. We dont really care if the other person does it becauese i am too.

[Thunduhbuhlt]

Instead of asking just start doing it yourself and make it really obvious. he'll notice and probably speak up

AGREED :yes:

[packer797]

Just don't have a sleep over anymore then I will solve everything

[vernon]

he is ur frend u should know how to break the ice.i would try talking to him about it

[Hermes]

Assuming you are not thinking he could so it in the open just for his own comfort but are curious and would quite like him to I'd start by masturbating under the covers myself when he is doing it. Then, once he knows what you're doing say something like "When I do this at home I normally have the covers off so I don't get cum on them. Would that be OK? You can do the same if you like"

[ianc96]

I would make a joke out of it (hey, some of us are trying to sleep over here, or something like that). Maybe suggest for him to do it in the open so it's quieter?

[LDK Ven]

i think just start with having a talk about stuff
when he does it again i would act as i know he does it . id say im fine with it or maybe say i might do it too