Going Too Fast?

[Fishcustard]

Hey everyone, I used to read these forums a couple years ago, but only just remembered them when I had a question.

First, some backstory.

My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 7 weeks, after knowing each other as friends for about 8 months and crushing on one another for about 2 of those before going out. Eventually, I got the hint(s) and asked her out.

To be honest, I was clueless. It took me a day or two to start holding her hand, and two weeks to work up the nerve for a kiss. 2 weeks after that (now almost of month), we'd progressed to making out whenever we're alone together (tongue and all). Along with that went minor feeling of each others bodies (back, stomach, face, hair).

Two days ago (about 7 weeks), when I was over at here house and we were sitting together on her bed. While making out, we did what I guess is called "heavy petting," feeling one another through our clothing (me squeezing her breasts and butt while she worked her hand around my back/butt). By the end of the night, I was rubbing between her legs (not sure of my accuracy, haha) and she was feeling my dick through my pants.

I feel I should also mention she was humping my leg while I was fondling her breasts, which is what made me think of rubbing down there.

What I want is know is: Are we going too fast? The last thing I want to do is ruin what we have by being stupid, or disrespecting her somehow.

Sorry for the long post, and thanks in advance for answers.

[Tamia]

Well, if you two were crushing on each other then, I guess that means she feels the same about u as u feel about her. I don't think ur moving too fast if its what the both if u want.

[jockguy14]

It sounds to me that you guys have moved at a good pace with the whole 2 weeks to kiss and another 2 weeks to make out. Just be careful.

[Ambrosia]

In all honesty, so far you're not moving too fast. But try to keep it to just that, since it seems you are both rather new to all this. Keep the clothes on, and the hands over them.

[Fishcustard]

Thanks very much for the replies. You guys are a great help.

[heykay]

Me and my boyfriend were doing all that and beyond in about two months, but it all depends on how comfortable you are. there's no guidelines for 'going too fast' because it all depends on you.

[letluvbleedred]

ur going at a pretty good pace in my opinion. Ever one i know though probably would have been further but their relationships never seemed to last long, so it sounds good that ur going at the past u r ^_^

[jtk339]

u 2 seem to be at the same stage and at the worst ask her talk to her if shes ready or not