bisexual help

[wattado]

okay so im pretty sure im bi. been thinking about this scince i was like 11 and now im 16 so i believe its true. is it scary telling people you are bisexual?

[ImCoolBeans]

Coming out can be difficult no matter who you are. Keep in mind that no body is forcing you to come out if you don't want to, or if you're not ready for it. Make sure that you're comfortable with the situation, you feel strongly about your decision and that you're in acceptance of yourself. Good luck with everything :)

[wattado]

i just dont like going through life not being myself. like i want people to know but i dont want to be unaccepted.

[TheMightyBruce]

hey im in the same boat you are...i finally realized the truth yesterday that i'm bi...and im starting to come out to a select few ppl in my life...

[Somebuddy]

I personally think you shouldn't come out because people these days will really make your life miserable if you tell them (not your fault) but I think you could tell someone really close if you new it wouldn't ruin your relationship

[Somebuddy]

Also, you know that there are some really friendly people here on VT that I guess you could chat with (Then you wouldn't feel like your not being yourself, right?) Give it a go;)

[wattado]

thats when i decided! lol and yea i just nervous that my gf will want to break up with me because of it.

[TheMightyBruce]

nah shouldnt be too hard to open to your gf...if you love each other everything will be fine...at least you have a special someone...ahh the woes of being single..lol

[wattado]

i guess im just nervous too. i know the people who really care about me wont care but its my mind that likes to make it seem like the worlds gonna end.

[RLuna]

Just do it when your for sure the time is right. It will be hard but believe me, your not alone.

[wattado]

thanks it was hard to even say anything like that on here. im gonna be glad once i dont have to worry about it anymore.

[scottnesss]

coming out can be a difficult process and is different for everybody.
i myself am in the middle of it, out to alot of my friends and some family, but not to everybody else; my boyfriend is only out to his mum and a couple of friends.

It can be scary, but those who truly matter and love you will not care, although they may take their time in getting used to the idea. try to remind them, that you have not changed, merely updated them on who you are :)

hope everything goes well for you:)

[Jose]

Im 14 and bi i never minded telling my freinds and my bro knows i have been w both sexs i do like girls more i was surprised how many of my freinds were curious and even a few of my female ones so dont stress

[TheMightyBruce]

Yea I'm scared about telling other people still...but my closest friends have been supportive, although some of my friends still don't believe me when I say it...and not gonna lie it does hurt a lil...but I still forgive em...