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Ureadmyusername
December 29th, 2011, 09:38 AM
well my gf spends more time with friends than me.. And I am angry about it. I want to get over it. But yesterday i did something very stupid. I love my gf really much like no one love her, but yesterday she was with her friend out, and i found out where they are. They were 3-4 friends hanging out, 3 females one male. And then there was people. I started yelling to my girlfriend like crazy, You don't go with me go with these whores, gays, everything i said to them. Btw that day we agreed to go out that day, and she did go with friends. I yelled at her and i started pulling her away from them. I was very angry lol , then i go home and she said, why did u do that? It was late to apology her lol. I started apologing, and she said if you only know how much i love you , you won't do that to me. I begged her , i did everything but.. I said you will broke up with me now? And she said ''I can't forget what you did too easy, I need time"


Help me pls, how to apology her, I know she still love me, but i need an advice how to apology her, or to do something that se won't be angry anymore. Help me pls she is love of my life..

kenoloor
December 29th, 2011, 10:06 AM
well my gf spends more time with friends than me.. And I am angry about it. I want to get over it. But yesterday i did something very stupid. I love my gf really much like no one love her, but yesterday she was with her friend out, and i found out where they are. They were 3-4 friends hanging out, 3 females one male. And then there was people. I started yelling to my girlfriend like crazy, You don't go with me go with these whores, gays, everything i said to them. Btw that day we agreed to go out that day, and she did go with friends. I yelled at her and i started pulling her away from them. I was very angry lol , then i go home and she said, why did u do that? It was late to apology her lol. I started apologing, and she said if you only know how much i love you , you won't do that to me. I begged her , i did everything but.. I said you will broke up with me now? And she said ''I can't forget what you did too easy, I need time"


Help me pls, how to apology her, I know she still love me, but i need an advice how to apology her, or to do something that se won't be angry anymore. Help me pls she is love of my life..

First off, what you did was incredibly stupid. Accept that and get over it.
Now that you realize that you were being ridiculous, you need to apologize. Short and sweet. And once. DO NOT NAG. Don't write a novel to her.

From the looks of the threads you've been posting, you seem to be clingy and overprotective of this girl. You need to stop "testing her love" and you need to stop being jealous. Those traits are a recipe for disaster, as demonstrated by your current circumstances.

Ureadmyusername
December 29th, 2011, 10:44 AM
First off, what you did was incredibly stupid. Accept that and get over it.
Now that you realize that you were being ridiculous, you need to apologize. Short and sweet. And once. DO NOT NAG. Don't write a novel to her.

From the looks of the threads you've been posting, you seem to be clingy and overprotective of this girl. You need to stop "testing her love" and you need to stop being jealous. Those traits are a recipe for disaster, as demonstrated by your current circumstances.


But i can't be soft, that guy loves my gf, and she loved him before me.. So I am scared if she will love him again

TDB95
December 30th, 2011, 01:31 AM
I think you should tell her (in person) that you are being over protective because you love her and are afraid to loose her, and tell jer your going to work on not being jelous, and you shouls actually work on it

Surferchic2362
December 30th, 2011, 11:30 AM
I'm sorry. If she is your gf, then she should be your best friend. There is a commitment between you two that goes before bff's. Where you confronted her and how you did it was wrong. Apologize for that, but explain your reasons. Be sincere and be honest. Good luck.

anonymous53
December 30th, 2011, 01:30 PM
Sorry buddy, if I were her, I would have broken up with you on the spot. You need to trust her to be with her friends and keep control of your jealousy. She is /not/ your property. You cannot /tell/ her to do anything. You just need to wait and see what her decision is.