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Dimentio
December 28th, 2011, 04:33 PM
Well i first started finding out i was gay around 12ish i think, Then finally fully accepted it at 13ish, So yeah i was not in those stages of going through gay long.
So how long was it for you? Or are you still going through it or know someone who is?
Also this is a personal one which i think only adults can answer but on other sites when i used to say i was gay people woud go "You're not gay!", "Be sure before you say your gay!", "You can't be gay as your good and that is bad!" So why is it for the younger teen people say they cannot be gay yet with the older teen it can be OK and same for the young adult? Because that is one thing i fount stressfull with being gay.

Sire
December 29th, 2011, 01:58 AM
I honestly don't think I had a transitioning time. I just never could form what I felt into words until I actually learned what gay meant, then i realized at the age of 10, "Oh Hey, that's me." xP Unexciting and not very dramatic, which I am very lucky to have experienced.