For gay guys

[Can'tHelpIt]

So do you want a flamboyant guy or a man-man? I want a man-man what about ou?

[Levi scott]

I'm a guy who wants another guy lol but I like a sensitive guy also

[Carlyle]

Well, I would prefer a manly man who is a bit sensitive. a total hard ass or a poof would just annoy me to no end.

[Fruit_Tart.]

Manly man just because I'm already a bit flamboyant. I prefer the muscle or dominant features in a boy, too. XD

[Cave Johnson]

Well, I would prefer a manly man who is a bit sensitive. a total hard ass or a poof would just annoy me to no end.

same

[KICKASSKID]

Manly man, whatever that means, but you can't really choose who you fall in love with.

[prob1996]

.... but you can't really choose who you fall in love with.

^^agreed^^


I really don't want someone too flamboyant but if that's the way he is and I love him, i'm not going to say no

[Commander Thor]

Manly man, whatever that means, but you can't really choose who you fall in love with.

^^agreed^^


I really don't want someone too flamboyant but if that's the way he is and I love him, i'm not going to say no

Pretty much this.

I don't want a guy who's acts like a TOTAL girl though. I wouldn't be gay if I wanted to date a girl.
But if the man I love happens to be a little to moderately flamboyant, who cares?

[Giles]

I'm quite flamboyant myself so I do like a bit of a masculine guy... but then again my boyfriend is even more flamboyant than I am so it kind of throws that out the window. I suppose it depends on a much wider range of things than just that.

[canadaski]

I prefer the more manly type, the type that you wouldn't be able to label as gay unless they told you directly. I do think that a little bit of a lisp is insanely cute though. It's not really a preference of a conscious choice as much as it is just attraction.

[RoseyCadaver]

I act and do consider myself androgynous, which some could say that makes myself a bit feminine. I however am bisexual, and with women I could date a masculine or feminine one, but with guys I want someone masculine or not feminine lol.

[triplet1]

I would like a more masculine guy loud flamboyant people kinda annoy me

[Dimentio]

Well i got my eyes set on this one guy who i am sure he likes me, And with me and him, Well i do not know about him ha ha, But we do not look gay exactly.
So i guess kinda a manly-Gay? Ha ha :D

[Sire]

So do you want a flamboyant guy or a man-man? I want a man-man what about ou?

As long as they are a decent guy, I don't give a F*ck honestly.

[Alex_I_love_R]

I don't know if I am gay or straight yet!
But since I am pretty masculine and athletic maybe a fit feminine but NOT a cross dresser

[Tristin.]

give me a honest, decent and funny guy and if i like him, ill like him. i myself can be a tad more on the girly side of things but thats who iam.

[Can'tHelpIt]

I mean I don't want super macho but just a bit more on the man side

[SlightlySane]

I hear this kind of question constantly and I used to use the phrase, "I want a man, not a guy who acts like a girl." I'm rather upset to look by on myself and see such an ignorant phase.

I want someone who I am attracted to. I don't count anyone out based on their socially defined masculine or feminine features. I tend to be attracted to men who are comfortable with themselves, and trust me I can tell when they are. Usually it's someone who has a good balance of submissive and dominant traits as I prefer to refer to them.

Please keep an open mind. Another thought to throw out there, is there a difference between the kind of man you would like to sleep with and the kind of man you would date? Sometimes you'd be surprised what thoughts that can induce ;)

[lausonfarleyii]

I like muscle men's but not too muscular .i would love a power to but a the same time I can be versatile

[Fruit_Tart.]

Please keep an open mind. Another thought to throw out there, is there a difference between the kind of man you would like to sleep with and the kind of man you would date? Sometimes you'd be surprised what thoughts that can induce ;)
I was thinking about that as well.

To answer THAT question I would like to date a boy who just loves me for me and all the little things as well. I prefer a more muscular person in the bed though. XD

[Shadowin]

i prefer more masculine guys but with a touch of femininity to them(i hope i spelt it right)

[radioactive]

I prefer a more manly man i guess

[TheMightyBruce]

I'm bi...but i would want a balance of both masculinity and sensitivity

[Infidelitas]

I want a man who will love me for who I am, that I can love for who he is also.

[kyleb]

I like the muscles and such, so definitely a man-man.

[Gandalf]

Just a happy fulfilling relationship, ok it might sound corny and idealistic, but I try not to be choosy.

[sieg]

I want a man who's nice and smart, and not ugly.

[Lights]

I really don't want someone too flamboyant but if that's the way he is and I love him, i'm not going to say no

Pretty much this.

I don't want a guy who's acts like a TOTAL girl though. I wouldn't be gay if I wanted to date a girl.
But if the man I love happens to be a little to moderately flamboyant, who cares?

These posts show how I feel.
I used to think I would always be against dating a flamboyant guy because as a gay guy myself, I wanted a more masculine boyfriend. While I still hold the view in the sense that I bolded in Commander Thor's quote, as I've grown up I've actually matured and understood that in the end, whether the guy is masculine or feminine, it's not necessarily going to stop you from falling in love with them, because ultimately, if your personalties click, and there's sexual attraction between you both, then little else really matters.
The boy I've liked for over a year (who's straight) is masculine, but I'm not going to eliminate the possibility that I could like a guy who's a little more on the feminine side in the future. Like Commaner Thor said though, I don't want a guy who acts like a total girl though cause I wouldn't be gay if I wanted to date a girl, lol. :P

I like the muscles and such, so definitely a man-man.

One day this user will look back on this post and realise just how shallow it is.

[Abigballofdust]

I am kind of annoyed by flamboyant people, especially if they're loud. It's something I don't appreciate in girls too, so it's not I'm a homophobic gay.
I wouldn't like a manly bf though. Something in between would be great.

[Fourth Dimension]

combination of the 2

[Sebastian Michaelis]

I dont want man-man but i really dont want a person i could mistake for a girl. just a normal guy

[Giles]

homophobic gay.

Um. There may be a flaw here...

[Abigballofdust]

Um. There may be a flaw here...

It's an oxymoron. It doesn't have to be real, it's just a figure od speech meant to give a whitty touch to the conversation.

[TYLERT]

I prefer slim with nice round ass. I do not like guys who act like girls but prefer a sexual and lasting relationship.

[Tonebone88]

Somewhere in the middle but leaning more towards manly.