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Curious-Helpful
December 27th, 2011, 05:52 AM
Hey everyone:)
I really need some help.. I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or just curious..:confused:

I like girls a lot, and date them and stuff, but if I can't stand the thought of dating a guy.. At the same time, I can't think of having sex with a girl without getting a little queasy:(, but if I see a hot dude, I'd think "OMG, I could screw him!:D"

I like watching gay and bi porn more than straight porn too..:eek:

I don't know what this all means, and any help would be appreciated..
Thanks everyone :lol:

Polo2847
December 27th, 2011, 03:00 PM
I'm the same too. I think you're just curious and your hormones are just going crazy. Hopefully you'll be able to decide when you get older.

Rogan_Vos
December 27th, 2011, 03:02 PM
Simple answer: you won't know whether you're bi or just curious 'til you've tried.

To be honest, if you can't bare the thought of actually dating a fellow boy but still find boys sexually attractive, I'd say you were more curious than bi. It might help your confusion to experiment a bit with a close male friend, if you know of any who're also bi/bi-curious.

Donkey
December 27th, 2011, 03:02 PM
Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality

FullyAlive
December 27th, 2011, 03:12 PM
I wouldn't sit around wondering what you are, it'll change so much, at the end of the day you don't need to define yourself. Just like who like, date who you date. One day it'll be clearer for you. But don't get too hung up on it. Your sexuality isn't what makes you.

You might find once you find the right one you do want to have sex with a girl, or maybe you won't you don't know yet so try not to worry. If it so happens you find a guy you like then maybe you'll discover you do want a relationship with him.

Don't label yourself. You don't need to just go with it. Try not to worry.

Fourth Dimension
December 27th, 2011, 07:03 PM
it will all become clear to you soon enough

stuo
December 27th, 2011, 07:54 PM
Don't be too hasty in wrighting out a label for yourself just yet, just go with the flow

Jeikobu
December 27th, 2011, 11:40 PM
Same here, my friend :/
I've been told it's normal though! So don't sweat! :D

bleachedteen
December 28th, 2011, 02:08 AM
you don't need a label. just like what you like. Maybe someday you'll be sure, but for now just relax and live your life

Dimentio
December 28th, 2011, 04:29 PM
You might be like me when i started off, So i am saying you are just gonig through the first stages of gay and right now i would say your in the stage of denial which you like guys, But you are forcing yourself to like guys, So i would say your gay, Or you are bi, But attracted to the same sex more, Hope this helped :D