First Date

[scott757]

Ok, so I'm going out with a girl tomorrow for the first time with a couple of mates who... well we may be able to speak to hahaha (Hope you know what I mean by that...;))

Anyways I am wanting to try and slip a kiss in there. We have only been really talking about a month but have bonded really well and reeallly like each other. So how would I be able to slip in a kiss??? Shes comfortable hugging me as we have hugged numerous times before I asked her out, so that barrier has been crossed so how would I get a kiss in?

I have had a girlfriend before and we did kiss ect. but that was like 3 years ago so you can see where I need the help :/

Any help would be brilliant :D

[LuckyLuke]

Since you've already broken the touch barrier, it'll be much easier.

You need to judge the signs. The biggest indicators of interest, esp. for a kiss, is when a girl is looking at you and her eyes are looking directly into yours but wiggling a bit (trying to look at both your eyes at once). Others include: leaning towards you, slightly tilted head, playing with hair, blushing, laughing, feet towards you and smiling.

Signs of non-kiss interest include: crossed arms, one foot VERY noticeably behind another, not looking directly at you (although this sometimes can be an indicator that she's shy, it has to be used in conjunction with other non-indicators), flinching at your touch.

The best way to go in for a kiss would be to touch her hand or grab her waist, look directly in her eyes, close yours and slowly move in. REMEMBER: It's the VERY first second, the going in, that's the most difficult. I dare say, from my very limited experience and from all the things I've heard from friends and l'internet, that there isn't another time in the sexual side of a relationship that's more difficult, nerve wracking, and takes loads of judgment. Everything after that (tends to be) either a natural instinct or passion induced.