Kind of a fantasy?

[Gummi]

Well me and my girlfriend have been making out a lot lately, and I have kind of a fantasy. I want to grab her butt while we make out. I'm not sure if this is wierd or not, but I just really want to try it. I think it would be hot. The only problem is that I don't know how to bring it up and ask her if I can. I don't want to do it if she doesn't want me to because I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Two or three times when she hugged me she grabbed my butt maybe on accident or maybe on purpose, so I'm not sure if that means anything.

Do you think she will mind if I do? and how do I bring it up?
Thanks

and if you need to konw anything else I'll add it.

[LuckyLuke]

How many times have you made out? Is it a frequent thing or once or twice?

If you've made out a few times (tongue and all), go for it without asking. It's actually a very common thing.

Asking makes it awkward, an impulsive and sly squeeze mid-makeout makes it passionate.

Good luck and best wishes.

[Oath]

Communication is key in relationships. You shouldn't at all feel afraid to discuss these sorts of things with her. Just simply ask her, if she does not want to do it, accept that. If you are really adamant about doing this, persuade her. Talk with her about it. I'm pretty sure that by communicating about trying new things, your relationship will be fine.

[Azunite]

Just hold her from heir waist, then go slowly down. She'll let you know if she is distubed by it

[FullyAlive]

Yeah, pretty much just do it. If shes comfortable enough kissing etc she probably won't mind. If she does mind it she'll let you know and then you don't do it again. It's simple enough I wouldn't worry about it too much, just go for it.

[TwilightFan]

You should just say the same thing you just wrote here. You should start with "I wanna talk to you about something and I don't know where to start ..." And then you should just tell her, what you want to do and that you don't want to make her feel uncomfortable, so you won't do it, if she doesn't want to, like you wrote it in here. So, if she wants you to grab her butt, she'll let you, and if she doesn't, she'll appreciate you asked, I'm sure.

[Gummi]

How many times have you made out? Is it a frequent thing or once or twice?

If you've made out a few times (tongue and all), go for it without asking. It's actually a very common thing.

Asking makes it awkward, an impulsive and sly squeeze mid-makeout makes it passionate.

Good luck and best wishes.

We've been making out every day for the past 2 weeks like once or twice a day.

We haven't made out with tongue, but we are going to try tomorrow. I'm thinking about putting my hands on her waist then slowly moving them down to her butt.

Thanks everyone.

[LuckyLuke]

We've been making out every day for the past 2 weeks like once or twice a day.

We haven't made out with tongue, but we are going to try tomorrow. I'm thinking about putting my hands on her waist then slowly moving them down to her butt.

Thanks everyone.

Without tongue = You shouldn't do it, yet.

With tongue = after the second makeout

See, when you're making out with tongue, it's much more passionate and it's basically the bridge into the more sexual things- such as what you want to do. I'd wait until you've hit this milestone of the sexual side of your relationship to ensure the highest possible chance that she'll be comfortable and you won't be denied.

[jockguy14]

Yea you can try it out. One time I had a girl take my hand off her butt while still making out. Not really the best thing that could've happened. So make sure that you've made out enough so that that won't happen to you.

[Ashleigh]

just try it. if she doesnt want you to most likely thing she will do is wriggle out of it or move your hand. if she does that dont do it again for a while until she shows signs of wanting you to do that kinda stuff xx

[sarahann95]

I would probably just try it. If she doesn't like it, she'll let you know. I honestly think asking about it can be a little awkward.

[kalolin]

Yeah, pretty much just do it. If shes comfortable enough kissing etc she probably won't mind. If she does mind it she'll let you know and then you don't do it again. It's simple enough I wouldn't worry about it too much, just go for it.

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