View Full Version : it feels right but wrong
benneedle16
December 25th, 2011, 04:45 PM
I started doing stuff with my best mate the other day he's 4 years younger than me but we both enjoy it loads we haven't gone all the way yet, i enjoy it but dont want it to reck our friendship
iloveladygaga
December 26th, 2011, 10:35 AM
If you both feel right doing it and you take all the necessary steps of protection, then i don't see anything wrong with you two doing it together!! it won't wreck your friendship as long as you respect each other's dignity an don't get abusive! Just enjoy it!!! :)
randomchazzz
December 26th, 2011, 07:12 PM
4 years is a big age gap, as long as your both legally allowed to do what you're doing then there is no issue - technically. But make sure you're both completely comfortable and neither of you feel pressured, then decide if it's morally right from there on!
patrick2010
December 26th, 2011, 11:00 PM
say as long as u both enjoy doing what ur doing
then nothing wrong with it. dont force or pressure
anything on him because hes younger. id say have fun
until either of u decide u dont want to
UhmmJohn
December 27th, 2011, 01:38 AM
Yeah what the other people above me said was right.
If it feels right then just keep going on lol
MalditoDia
December 27th, 2011, 01:41 AM
If you both like it keep doing it and it shouldnt mess up yall friendship.
frunziss
December 27th, 2011, 08:29 AM
If you both like it, keep doing it.
anubisgodofdead
December 27th, 2011, 09:18 AM
if you both feel comfortable then i think it's okay if he's not comforable with it then it's not okay. Simple as that
josh6387
December 27th, 2011, 11:02 AM
do it!
willy93
December 27th, 2011, 11:38 AM
ask your mate what he thinks about it and see what he thinks, go from there
RLuna
December 27th, 2011, 11:46 AM
As long as everyone is comfortable I dont see a problem.
Short Circuit
December 27th, 2011, 12:10 PM
What ages are involved here? If your like 13 and he is 9, then it is very very wrong. As your a new member, you have to be a maximum age of 19, making your friend 15, that means you can be charged with corrupting a minor. See where this is going?
ryanknott
December 27th, 2011, 12:21 PM
well, i would say as long as its still legal and you both aprove of it, then there shouldnt be anything wrong, but as already stated, 4 years is a big gap, i would talk to him and make sure he is okay with every thing that is going on
ImCoolBeans
December 27th, 2011, 01:16 PM
4 years is quite the age difference... How old are you exactly? If he's under 13 I would reccomend against this, it might not end so well in his favor.
Polo2847
December 27th, 2011, 02:37 PM
Just respect each other and be careful
LuckyLuke
December 27th, 2011, 05:33 PM
Whatever way you slice it, it sounds wrong..
13 and 9
14 and 10
15 and 11
16 and 12
17 and 13
18 and 14
19 and 15
For some reason, the only slightly respectable one to the ear is the 18 and 14 but even then, it just doesn't sound right. I'd HIGHLY advise against this.
maxii
December 27th, 2011, 07:21 PM
That's so wrong in so many ways
stuo
December 27th, 2011, 07:39 PM
4 years is too big agap
darthreilly
December 27th, 2011, 09:24 PM
yea dude im feelin that 4 years is too young
Can'tHelpIt
December 27th, 2011, 09:59 PM
The only one that sounds okay is 19 and 15 but thats against the law so if you wait but this is only experimenting right? If you really like love you could wait. My aunt and uncle have a 13 age difference
hotteengeek97
June 3rd, 2012, 09:01 PM
i have a friend and we always get together and do stuff that is very fun but i think 4 is a very big gap
ImCoolBeans
June 3rd, 2012, 09:04 PM
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