View Full Version : what should i do?
Trademarked
May 21st, 2007, 06:53 PM
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 102 days, and just yesterday, when he was over, it occurred to me that i didn't like him anymore. i want to like him. being with him is the best thing ever. i don't know why, but it just doesn't feel the same anymore.
he said he felt like that before, when we were going out, and he loves me just the same, so what should i do?
RowanVer.3.0
May 21st, 2007, 07:39 PM
Such is life.
Let him go, you're young.. If you really don't like him, what's the sense of forcing yourself into the relationship? Chances are it won't be THAT big of a deal. It happens all the time around where I live.
Trademarked
May 21st, 2007, 07:41 PM
but i dont want to let him go. i want to like him, and i want to be with him as long as i can.
bbychop
May 21st, 2007, 08:02 PM
i have had the same problem with my boyfriend before.
then something random, but amazing, happens to make you fall once again.
just let things kind of go over time and something may very well happen.
Gumleaf
May 23rd, 2007, 01:31 AM
you can't make yourself like someone, you either do or don't. by trying to like him you are just leading him on and just kidding yourself.
Sage
May 23rd, 2007, 05:51 PM
you can't make yourself like someone, you either do or don't. by trying to like him you are just leading him on and just kidding yourself.
Agreed, ignorance is bliss.
x__onyx
May 25th, 2007, 05:37 PM
Break it off.
If after a while you want him back, explain to him why you let him go in the first place, and hope he'll take you back.
Maxx 3 1/2
May 25th, 2007, 06:01 PM
yes see if you can find that beutifal thing in him that made you love him the first time aroud, if its gone then so is the reason to continue the relationship.
Ventrue
May 27th, 2007, 10:13 PM
You cannot force yourself to like him. If you no longer like him, unfortunate. Perhaps ,if you like hanging out with him, you can remain friends.
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