Staring.. ughh!

[IasiahDC]

No matter where I go I just can't not stop staring at guys .. my hormones are outta control!! It's very embarrassing because most of the time I get caught by that person or my friends. And sometimes i get an erection because I start thinking about what I want to do with this person or imagining them without anything on. I've tried avoiding places (stupid idea didn't work) and tried the rubber band method (keeping a rubber band around my arm and popping my self when I catch my self staring ) didnt work either.. I don't know what to do.. its driving me craaaaaazy!!

[tetoo123]

Its a normal part of puberty i know it sucks =\ if you find yourself staring just try thinking about something that turns you off. Its normal to be like that but if you wanna cut down on it just try what i just said or you could stick the the rubber band method and also add in the turn off. I think its totally fine what your doing but if you wanna cut down just try some different things. :D

[senior.2013]

Youre normal. Its only puberty. Like Tetoo123 said, think of something else. Hope all works out well!

[thomasgj]

just think of something else whenever the urges appear.

[anubisgodofdead]

i know it sucks i did it all the time when i showered with someone they just started back at me so sometimes it's normal for the person your staring at to. Hormones also play a factor too. Hope i helped

[Ace_of_Spades]

If someone catches you, just pretend you were thinking about something and so you were daydreaming, and that's where your eyes ended up.

[Compy386]

You should come up with a clever way to disguise your erections, like putting it at a weird angle or something.

[RLuna]

Just try and get turned off. As gross as it sounds, think of family and get that boner down. haha

[leafgreenangel]

you should try and not stare at that person but glance at them from time to time. when im at school and i dont want anyone to know im checking some guy out i talk to my friends then look at the guy then talk then look and it helps keeps the boner away and you have a less chance of getting caught staring

[MrBojangles]

Its a normal part of puberty i know it sucks =\ if you find yourself staring just try thinking about something that turns you off. Its normal to be like that but if you wanna cut down on it just try what i just said or you could stick the the rubber band method and also add in the turn off. I think its totally fine what your doing but if you wanna cut down just try some different things. :D

Like tetoo said, think about something that turns you off. This usually doesn't happen to me with anybody because I learned self control, but when I start staring at a girl's upper thigh or ass I always try to turn myself off by imagining something really nasty like a baby's fresh diaper with green diarrhea and corn in it.......It will turn you off in an instant. Hope I helped, Jangles :cool:

[lausonfarleyii]

the same thing happens to me but when i stand up it seems to go away

[Thomasho]

That's perfectly normal as long as it doesn't become an addiction. Can you stop doing it, it comes naturally or you just can't stop? It depends :)

[Tonebone88]

I know it stinks, but its normal. I always stare when I shower at the public gym and I feel weird, but I can't stop myself.

[Rogan_Vos]

Just go with it. Look on the bright side: its not like you're jumping them and ripping all their clothes off in a sex-crazed frenzy (even if thats what's going through your head ^^)

Its all just part of the 'process of blooming' as my old school nurse used to say.

[xxkxx]

I get it alot as well but you just have to control yourself. If you realise your staring and they take you up on it, just say you were staring into space

[Antagonist]

Um, when I cared if people caught me I thought of things uterally disgusting or funny to distract me. But now I dont care if people catch me, especially dudes, because at my school everyone knows Im bi.

Hope this helps.

[tetoo123]

Jangles.... Thats a nice way and all but that just put a nice image in my head that i cant get rid of. so thanks xD

[Kobra]

Well, if this makes you feel any better, an adult male thinks about sex about every 7 seconds. So with teenagers raging hormones, we probably think about it every like 4 seconds. Don't feel bad, there are so many people in the same boat as you.

[Pyro99]

I have the same problem.What can you do, my raging hormones are TOTALLY out of controll.

[The realist]

Its part of puberty

[McMantis]

just don't worry it is normal!