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FullyAlive
December 24th, 2011, 05:50 AM
There's a guy that likes me who just won't get the message. I got with him in the summer and since then he texts and facebooks me all the time. He makes obvious hints at the summer which make me really uncomfortable, he's forever inviting himself over, I say no obviously, and he does this embarrassing thing instead of commenting on my photo's he'll link me and comment privately it's really weird. I do not like him in that way at all but he won't leave me alone. He lives a little way from me so I don't have to see him all that often but even so.

I would just really like a suggestion of a nice way to get rid of him? I don't like him and find some of his suggestions way too far and awkward. However I want to do it so we can still be friends and in a nice way.

Ive tried telling him I don't want a relationship right now, and that he's a good friend emphasis on friend. But he really isn't taking the hint.
What can I do?

ILOVEYOU
December 24th, 2011, 10:08 AM
If you have already told him about your feeling towards him then i don't think there are much nice ways left. i would talk to him again if i were you, tell him you want to get this straight that if he wants to remain at being your friend, he has to accept your opinion of him, that he can only be a friend.
i hope i helped. :)

Kaius
December 24th, 2011, 10:22 AM
Well other than the fact that I want to break his legs I'd say the best thing to do is to block and delete him off of facebook and msn. If that doesn't give him the hint then tell him straight out what hes suggesting is making you extremely uncomfortable and if he likes you that much he'll understand he needs to back right off.

TheTrueKing
December 24th, 2011, 11:16 AM
tell him that you did that onenight and now its over. Say we can still be friends but nothing closer. If hes not cool with that then isolate him

Fiction
December 24th, 2011, 11:35 AM
if he's not getting the hint as others have said Louise, tell him straight. :) Or pretend your lesbian with me... either will work...

FullyAlive
December 26th, 2011, 02:26 PM
I know I need to tell him straight, but I want a nice way of doing that?
I personally don't think I'm that mean a person although others may disagree, I'm only harsh to people who hurt me. And it sounds really stupid but I don't want to upset him, after all i have kind of led him on a bit?
So yeah a nice way to set him straight?

if he's not getting the hint as others have said Louise, tell him straight. :) Or pretend your lesbian with me... either will work...

Haha you know I considered this :P But I'd rather word didn't get round mutual friends that I'm gay when I'm not..