Cicero
December 23rd, 2011, 11:31 PM
So I'm going to a different school next school year. This school I'm going to is literally like the big people in the city. The school is known for two things: the rich kids and football. I'm really wanting to go to the school for Junior year in High School, but m worried I'll embarrass myself. I'm very shy and about 3 weeks into the school year people dislike me.
Im trying to get in shape so I can play a sport there (soccer or football) cause I know if I play one of those sports the girls will like me and the guys will like me and respect me. In a way I do have connections there. Because before some people I knew went to that school we were in the same class together, one of them being a football player and the other one (a girl I really like) a volleyball player. (I live in America so it's American football). But what can I do so that they help me out a little? We are friends on facebook but I wouldn't know how to ask for help.
I have always had a hard time making friends. I'm going to get help in 1 week. So the therapist will give me a lot of good tips.
If I join one of those sports (especially football) I'll Automatically become popular (that is if I'm alright-good at the sport). But I'm worried I'll make a fool of myself when I go their, because this school is a private school the richest of the richest in the city send their kids to (high school I'll be in 11th grade by that time).
First off: how can I practice being well liked at my current school? (my reputation is that people think I am gay because my voice is higher than the other guys, and because I don't participate in a sport (to late to join one now). But my current school can be a practice run for me before I go to the other school.
How can I assure myself I'll be good enough to at least play soccer? How can I practice (I have no friends to practice with and mum and dad are always busy) ?
How can I make friends now, or at least practice not being shy?
Im trying to get in shape so I can play a sport there (soccer or football) cause I know if I play one of those sports the girls will like me and the guys will like me and respect me. In a way I do have connections there. Because before some people I knew went to that school we were in the same class together, one of them being a football player and the other one (a girl I really like) a volleyball player. (I live in America so it's American football). But what can I do so that they help me out a little? We are friends on facebook but I wouldn't know how to ask for help.
I have always had a hard time making friends. I'm going to get help in 1 week. So the therapist will give me a lot of good tips.
If I join one of those sports (especially football) I'll Automatically become popular (that is if I'm alright-good at the sport). But I'm worried I'll make a fool of myself when I go their, because this school is a private school the richest of the richest in the city send their kids to (high school I'll be in 11th grade by that time).
First off: how can I practice being well liked at my current school? (my reputation is that people think I am gay because my voice is higher than the other guys, and because I don't participate in a sport (to late to join one now). But my current school can be a practice run for me before I go to the other school.
How can I assure myself I'll be good enough to at least play soccer? How can I practice (I have no friends to practice with and mum and dad are always busy) ?
How can I make friends now, or at least practice not being shy?