His Personality Changed.

[CJgiggles]

Okay, well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months. We only seen each other 3 days:(
it seems like his personality changed. Somedays he can be extreamly lovable but then other days it's like he doesn't wants me touching him (i'm not those Clingy gilfriends). Even my best friend said she noticed the change. She said she'll be talking to him on msn and somedays he's right happy and everything and then others he'll snap at her for no reason. He also said that he thinks i have a crush on one of my best friends, he said he was just jokeing but he said the same thing to my friend. He doesn't like when my guy friends touch me. One day i wore eye shadow and he said he doesn't like when i wear it. I was talking to his old girlfriend and she said thats almost the same thing he would do to her.

I'm really confused. If anyone has gone through something like this can you give me some advice on what to do or why he might be like this?
Please help i'm so confused.:confused:

[Gumleaf]

i find it interesting that he thinks you have a crush on your friend, and in my opinion that makes the other things you have said make sense. i think that sometimes that thought (you having a crush on someone else) isn't in his mind and during those times he probably seems 'normal'. but when the thought of you having that crush plays on his mind it probably makes him feel uneasy and may cause him to snap. this would also explain his issue with your guy friends touching you. if anything, it probably shows that he really likes you and is scared that he might lose you, although in a strange way. hope this helps!

[DestroyTheFuture]

he's scared of losing you. thats all.

he's mad and jealous that other guys are even LOOKING at you during a class when you answer a question infront of your classmates.

i have the smae problem, because i look at relationships like gold. if/when i have a girlfriend, i treat her like a princess and i dont even acknowledge othe girls because i dont need to. i expect her to do the same and if she doesnt, it hurts me. thats my problem...and it could very well be his.

[Look whos here!]

i dont know if hes jealous of others, or afraid of losing you, or hes a bitch who wants to control you. but, with all things considered...i think hes kinda afraid of losing you, cuz 8 months? thats valuable, a very long time. so yea.

[Sapphire]

I think they have all hit the nail on the head. Whether it is a fear of losing you or jealousy of other guys looking at you, it all leads to one thing. He is obviously not going off you, I'd say that the point is he has become more attached to you and is (maybe?) a bit possessive of you.

Sit him down. Say that you have noticed a change. Be understanding and allow him the freedom to get whatever it is off his chest.

[JackDaniels]

im a guy, been with ma girlfriend for 9 months now, and i also have my 'off' days where i snap a lot... these are usually caused by stress, but i really go 'wierd' if i think my girlfriend is goin off me, or i feel like im missing out on a part of her life that i should be there for (we're really attached and close), most of the time it leads to me feeling depressed and thats why i snap coz im worried

i wouldnt say he's going off you, i'd agree with wat everyone else has said....he feels attached to you and doesnt want to lose you, i think you need to talk to him and assure him that your not going off him and that there is no-one else, only him, and that you love him