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hipster101
December 22nd, 2011, 11:21 PM
Hey so, I realized something today...I can't talk to girls, can't flirt with them, can't even remotly show that I'm interested. How did I find this out? I was at future shop, lookin at a new camera (i do filmmaking) and there was this cute blonde there, too. She wouldnt stop looking at me, she smiled and stuff...I wanted to go and talk to her...but had no sweet clue what to do...how do I approach a girl in such a situation...or in school,approach a girl in an 'im interested' way, not a creep, but a 'i like you, but not like a friend' way

TwilightFan
December 26th, 2011, 05:22 PM
I think flirting is pretty simple. If she smiles at you and you like her, you should smile back. And if you really like her, if you wanna go out on a date with her, you should just go to her and say: "Hey, you know, I kinda like you, so I was wondering if we could go out on a date or something?" And if she says yes, you could ask her for her number or perhaps you should give her your number ...

Surferchic2362
December 27th, 2011, 04:08 PM
If you font have confidence, you have no shot. We want a man not a boy. My brother couldn't talk to them either. The best thing to do is listen. If she ask you a question, answer it with the question.
Her: What do you like to do?
You: Same as everyone else. What about you?

Repeat the steps nd soon iT will come natural and you wont even think about it.

LuckyLuke
December 27th, 2011, 05:21 PM
In that particular situation you had an easy and open opportunity. What you could have done is this:

*Pick up camera*
"Hey, are you into film? What do you think of this camera?"
If yes: "Good camera, blah blah"
"Cool, I'll have to keep that in mind. You have really pretty/really great ____, oh! I didn't catch your name. My name's ____. We should hang out sometime, maybe do some photos? Can I have your number?"
If no: "I'm just starting out, don't really know"
"Oh? We should hang out sometime, I could teach you."

You can almost always follow this model of bridging whatever style of situation you're in into asking for the number.

Good luck and best wishes!

TheMightyBruce
December 27th, 2011, 05:55 PM
Talk to me on Skype...I can help you out a lot...I went through the exact same thing and once I joined a frat, my best friend and big bro helped me out.

packer797
January 2nd, 2012, 10:55 PM
Thats when u walk by her and drop your number on the ground and say I think u dropped something then leave or say depends on the person I guess she was in that store for a reson so u guys share the same interests u could have talked about that.