Religion and Gays and Bi's? Not knowing emotionally?

[Cicero]

So I'm Catholic. And I'm worried I might be gay or at least bi.

So whenever I see someone who's good looking I stare, or if theirs a pic, I have that pic on my computer and stare at it. Is this normal for someone who is straight but curious?

So as my previous postes said, I am worried I might be gay. They said your only gay if you can imagine a future with a guy. Well theirs this really cute guy on here who is stunning. Ive looked at his pic a lot and I think wow he's hot. But when I try to think "do I really imagine holding hands and confiding in him and marrying him?" and I just can't think. It's like when I think of that question my mind goes blank trying to think. So I can't imagine a future with a guy, because I literally can't, my mind goes blank! Does that mean anything?

When it comes to girls, I might stare at a picture of kim kardshian and I ask myself that same question (or someone equivalent to her). And it seems more clear, I can actually think of a future with her. But it's cloudy. What does this all mean?

My religion (catholic) says all gays go to hell. And I don't want t be gay. Out of all honsesty I think with a lot of guys, when puberty is done, I can't imagine a future. Whereas now, my mind is blank.

This subject is something I worry about and think about constantly !

[Donkey]

Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality

[AppealToReason]

Honestly? Stop worrying about it.
You're gay/bi if you're emotionally/physically attracted to guys. You don't sound like you're emotionally attracted, so I'd say you're just curious. You're in puberty so you will be confused as hell for away. That's normal. Don't worry about what gender you like. Don't stress over this. Just go with the flow.

[Gordo]

If your religion says all gays go to hell, that would be interesting... They may say all sinners go to hell, but we know that's not true or no one would make it to heaven.

I think it may be time for you to look into other forms of the Christian faith. Only through Christ can you get to heaven, period. It isn't about performance, it's about what you believe.

[Camazot]

dude the church is dumb not to thrash your beliefs
im catholic too by the way
but you see not everything the church says can be the truth because how can a bunch of men just sit down and say that things should be a certain way and this is why something is a certain way...well they cant
God made us the way we are like you said we dont have a choice and if God hated Gays or bi's then he wouldnt have ever made them in the first place
God loves all his children and there are some churchs that dont care about your sexual orientation
it all just depends on the church i guess
But it seems to me that you arent gay and not completely bi because you only seem to be looking at the physical view of a guy and you cant bring yourself to see yourself with a guy emotionally
but like others have said you are going through puberty and feelings and hormones are always going through you
so this may subside or it may not its up to you decide
and its up to you to decide how you're going to act upon the decision you make
if you should wish for an example
im bi i live in hiding with only a few friends knowing and when i told them my burden of keeping it to myself lifted
but im still not certain if im completely bi i just know that i like guys mostly physically and im fine with
and i hope that you will be able to choose whether or not you like them so you can have the relief of not dwelling on the topic that is so small in your life

i hope this help in some way
if you want to talk just PM of VM me anytime i'm normally on everday best of luck

[pridepancakes21]

It means that you are a normal guy going through puberty. And honestly, "god" has absolutely nothing to do with your sexuality and your happiness. You can't change who you are just because your "god" says it is wrong.

[jockguy14]

If your religion says all gays go to hell, that would be interesting... They may say all sinners go to hell, but we know that's not true or no one would make it to heaven.

I think it may be time for you to look into other forms of the Christian faith. Only through Christ can you get to heaven, period. It isn't about performance, it's about what you believe.

this.

As long as you have accepted Jesus into your heart and as your personal savior then you are going to heaven. Now you should work to eliminate sin throughout your life so that you may life more Christ-like.

[All The Small Things]

this.

As long as you have accepted Jesus into your heart and as your personal savior then you are going to heaven. Now you should work to eliminate sin throughout your life so that you may life more Christ-like.

do other reilgous gods count to then like the jews and muslums and hindues and budiest and monks and so on

[Can'tHelpIt]

Religon has nothing to do with sexuality whatsoever!

And what i don't get is "god" makes everyone who they are, right? Then why the fuck would he make people a sin. Makes no sense. Nothing in the bible makes sense. That's why I don't believe.