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Gschmidt247
December 22nd, 2011, 03:47 PM
So there is this girl I like and Today I gave her an Xmas present and When I got home I saw that she posted on my Facebook wall and said "Thanks beautiful ♥" and then I started chatting with her and she asked "mhmm... wait so whyd you get that for me? i mean... i love it and it was so sweet but im just wondering" and then I told I got gifts for other people also (last day before the Xmas break) but I really didn't get gifts for other people I just said that because I was kinda scared to tell her I like her. and then all of sudden her answers on chat got really short and quick after I would say something. I was wondering if you think she might feel hurt? Because I kind of think she likes me because she always comes up to me and hugs me and always ♥'s and say's Ily on chat. I'm just kind of confused.

fighter1010
December 22nd, 2011, 05:46 PM
she might of been hurt man but tell her how u truely feel its worth a shot man

Contra
December 22nd, 2011, 07:43 PM
In my opinion, in that moment, you have done the right thing, because even if you wanted her to know you like her, the Facebook chat isn't the place to tell her.
It certainly looks like she nourishes some special feeling for you. Maybe you should try and be honest with her about it or, at least, hinting that you like her.

Gordo
December 22nd, 2011, 08:07 PM
i would have told her or i'd tell her now how you feel. who doesn't like to hear that you like them? I'd tell her the truth and if the truth is that you got it for her cuz you like her, that's fine.

Then she'll wonder or ask you mean like-like? and you could answer: maybe :)

She probably wanted to feel special and by telling her you got stuff for others, she feels less special. Don't forget that her answers could have been short cuz she was distracted with fam or friends or was just busy

Gschmidt247
December 22nd, 2011, 08:10 PM
Thanks I appreciate it.

Gschmidt247
December 23rd, 2011, 12:28 PM
I actually asked her if she liked me and she said she liked me a little and then I told her I liked her also. Then our convo ended I am wondering what I should do next? I am assuming ask her out?

kenoloor
December 23rd, 2011, 12:31 PM
I actually asked her if she liked me and she said she liked me a little and then I told her I liked her also. Then our convo ended I am wondering what I should do next? I am assuming ask her out?

Talk to her about it. Ask her what she's expecting. Talk.

letluvbleedred
December 23rd, 2011, 07:31 PM
She likes you and you like her so yes ask her out! Talking though is important so dont forget to do that.

Camazot
December 23rd, 2011, 07:35 PM
from what you said it does seem she likes you and maybe the next time you see her tell her

ImCoolBeans
December 23rd, 2011, 11:37 PM
In my opinion, in that moment, you have done the right thing, because even if you wanted her to know you like her, the Facebook chat isn't the place to tell her.
It certainly looks like she nourishes some special feeling for you. Maybe you should try and be honest with her about it or, at least, hinting that you like her.

I agree with this, being straight forward and honest is usually your best bet.

deleteextreme
December 29th, 2011, 03:50 PM
You could always just ask her how she feels about you.