Hmm...?

[james wolf]

I think I know why I am so shy. I am scared of rejection. For example, I am scared of asking my friends to the movies because I am scared they will say no. This applies more to the people who I am not good friends with currently but would like to be friends with. There is one guy who catches my train in the morning, we have a laugh on the journey but at school we have different lessons so we don't speak at school. I want to hang out with him more but saying 'do you want to come over to mine?' feels a bit... too much, we haven't met up out of school before. And I don't want to ask him any of these questions as I am scared he will say no, and it might ruin what friendship we do have. Suggestions?

[prob1996]

Hmmmm, that can be tough. How about telling him a place that you will be after school one day, Like" hey can't wait I"m going to the mall (or wherever) today. Would be kinda cool if I saw you there. " kinda suggest it without actually asking him. like planting the seed in his mind. this way if he happens to just be there when u do, it's cool and you don't have to worry about him saying no. if he doesn't show, he doesn't show but u won't have to worry about the rejection as much.
I don't know that is a tough one.
Hope this helps!

[james wolf]

How would you do this on facebook?

[prob1996]

Facebook is pretty easy cause you can make a general post to everyone or this person specifically and say the same thing, that hey just going to wherever for anyone who wants to meet up. Leave it general.

VM or PM me and we can chat more on the subject